JimsITPenrith :
I've had this discussion with my daughter, and she asked me why her mother doesn't love me anymore because I'm a single parent now. I said I'm not perfect, but I loved her mother for everything that she was, and I said to me there was no bad because I loved the bad, the good, and the in-between.
If you love a person, I think you can be annoyed with habits, but you love that person for who they are. They're good habits, they're bad habits, they're annoying habits. That's why you fall in love with a person. That's why you love a person. You love everything about them, not just the parts that you like. It's hard to explain, but you even love the parts you don't like because that's who that person is.
I've never experienced that myself. I've never experienced someone loving all of me. I've had to change throughout my life to be someone else in front of so many people, for people to actually like parts of me. I wish one day that someone actually falls in love with all of me: my bad habits, my good habits, which makes me all of me.
2026-06-16 22:47:26