I don’t get offended when I know it doesn’t reflect me. I get upset when it does, and that’s for me to deal with.
2026-06-17 00:07:30
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Ashleigh Rachele :
You don’t have to coddle the people who understand.
2026-06-16 23:47:19
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WakoGeek :
Nah I know we ain’t shit😭 You’re good
2026-06-17 18:29:14
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Jen :
Those of us who give a damn about others know it's not about us. It's the people who haven't truly unpacked things yet who say well not me... all that to say fully agree.
2026-06-17 03:21:15
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Just Beth 🗽 :
I heard someone say "if it doesn't apply, let it fly" and I have lived by that. I don't get defensive because it doesn't apply to me. And if I get defensive, then it is something I need to sit with and unpack.
2026-06-17 02:35:29
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nicole.in.the.bleachers :
💯 no need for a disclaimer at all
2026-06-17 03:49:38
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starting@48🆘🇺🇸 :
this is usually me watching those videos 🤣🤣🤣
2026-06-16 23:55:08
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Cheri :
Those who it doesn't offend will get it. Those it does offend. Well, if the shoe fits.
2026-06-17 04:28:46
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James Pingree469 :
I come from NH and I am thankful to all the people that come on TikTok and talk about their culture and ethic history. I have learned so much. Thank you for sharing your experiences.
2026-06-17 11:03:24
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SleightStories :
You aren’t entirely wrong. It’s so many of us man. I’m so sorry it’s like this.
2026-06-16 23:28:47
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TheFox :
I think it's pretty easy to tell when someone is speaking generally or literally. I know you don't mean me.
2026-06-17 00:30:14
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wybaier :
Very good point. We know when it’s not us, tho I would suggest that maybe all of us have a fraction of blame, maybe even without being aware of it. Always being willing to to face even that small fraction increases our awareness. Encourages us to always be willing to listen & learn. I appreciate you so much. ❤️
2026-06-17 01:12:14
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Mike Schwartz :
I never really thought about it, but I never really thought you were talking about me, either. I definitely try not to be like "the others."
2026-06-17 01:35:02
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Robin Lindsay :
Exactly!! 👊 PERIOD💯💯
2026-06-17 06:16:44
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Diane Harris :
Absolutely 💯 Correct ☑️Mate
2026-06-17 13:48:26
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jill billups :
Perfectly put!
2026-06-16 23:46:08
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Audra Jacinda :
You are so correct!
2026-06-17 14:53:31
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Brittanie Leeann :
AGREED!!!!👏👏
2026-06-17 13:43:18
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dk3: UpScrolled/SubStack/IG :
So true.
2026-06-17 01:59:11
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redheron 🇨🇦🎨 :
oh yeah and if we're not sure then maybe it is us.
2026-06-16 23:19:29
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Jeff Olds :
those of us that know understand
2026-06-17 03:16:05
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Dana :
exactly!
2026-06-17 00:24:30
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lesliebeth1763 :
I knew that! I truly appreciate you, Dude! 🌊 🌊 🌊 ✌❤️
2026-06-17 17:45:21
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alnazthephane :
We have enough privileges. We don't need more courtesy. Also, adding in that final point, absolute perfection.
2026-06-17 19:28:00
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Michelle 💙💕🌺🐞 :
Period!!
2026-06-17 07:47:23
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