@secretuser3680852257: like i wish i could give you what you deserve but i just can’t. #fyp #venting #viral #relatable #avoidentattachmentissues

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tierneyserena
Serena🪽 :
I'm so determined to fix it this time though
2026-08-07 02:20:31
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lxhi_jaoh
Flippy :
my stomach literally drops and i feel nauseous for days when i realize how close i’ve gotten to someone. when i’m laying in bed it feels like the worst it coming. idk how to fix it
2026-07-08 03:38:41
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idek2534734
idek253473 :
it genuinely is because if you truly loved someone you wouldnt pull away and I mean if you truly did love someone this is just cope to deal with not wanting to be with them
2026-08-06 01:19:52
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kinslee_shae
kinslee_shae :
no bc how do i rewire this? tips and tricks very much appreciated
2026-06-27 06:14:37
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jennifer__lin
林 ྀིྀ🍊 :
I feel nauseous and sick whenever I realize that I like someone. Then I get an unbearable ache in my chest from the stress until I eventually just push them away
2026-06-30 02:39:28
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gods.girl_jen
Jen<3 :
cause I do want him so bad but when we get close I feel like im dying
2026-06-30 03:39:30
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.peytonaubrey
pey :
genuinely how i look after leaving them bc i get sick to my stomach but miss them the second their gone
2026-06-29 08:12:24
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jones_becca
Bec :
As someone who is an anxious avoidant, it most of the time is an excuse for people to be shitty. It’s your responsibility to work and grow. If you can’t be in a relationship you need to take the time to take a step back instead of putting it on others.
2026-07-26 20:11:02
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grayrots
gray :
the amount of hate avoidant attachment gets versus anxious attachment is insane to me. both are dealing with their own shit and both are equally deserving of love
2026-08-02 11:30:04
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alex823328
☆ Alex ★ :
Its not an excuse and should not be used as one. it is an explanation. But not everyone whos been hurt by an avoidants behavior wants to hear it and and that valid. Ps im an avoidant 😓✌️
2026-06-27 19:41:12
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defn0t_bailey000
Bailey🗝️🪞 :
I end up feeling sick to my stomach and lay in my bed crying while typing a paragraph to a sweet person about how I’m just not meant for love
2026-07-12 03:41:00
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bone_crush19
Daiki 🇵🇱🇬🇧 :
So many people don’t GET IT
2026-07-01 08:57:40
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g.a.b.r.i.e.l.l.e.11
gab!!🪩🎧🩷 :
it’s so bad. so bad. i have no clue how to get rid of it.
2026-07-19 21:31:10
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keepingupwkalahh
keepingupwkalahh :
you gotta truly go thru ts to understand it
2026-06-28 10:11:57
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mmpomwh
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they never felt so trapped, and like they couldn’t breathe when talking to smb
2026-07-26 19:55:53
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secretshhh6482827
secret :
i feel so guilty
2026-07-15 03:22:56
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guibidan_
S :
I did not need this today
2026-06-28 02:36:32
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skinny_bitch111
M :
When he said he wanted something real with me but I did all these things to push him away. I couldn’t say anything I just hugged him tighter knowing this was the last time.
2026-06-26 21:58:55
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sparkledab07
dabber :
i don’t understand how i’m so unhappy in a healthy relationship
2026-06-28 18:10:31
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paid2capture
paid2capture :
It’s hard bc you don’t force yourself to grow. Ppl don’t realize how easy the journey is to actually fixing it. (Coming from a healed avoidant)
2026-06-29 20:12:32
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majkaen
Majkaen :
Im trying so hard for him. I know he doesn't trust me after everything but I love him with my whole heart. I want to be better for myself for him for us. I feel like the biggest piece of shit alive because of everything I've put him through. I need to change.
2026-07-08 02:09:30
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burnt_toast_27
Burnt_toast :
It’s not that “you can’t” more like… “you don’t want to” because closeness terrifies you.
2026-06-28 04:40:55
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