I’m 57 years old. I dress up for work everyday, probably dressier than most. My hair and makeup are always done. I get mani/pedis on a regular basis. I feel good when I dress nicely. I’m not trying to dim anyone’s light. Just today…I walked into restaurant to get take out. An older lady was walking passed me and stopped and leaned in and said…”you look absolutely fabulous.” Complete stranger. It’s not the first time it’s happened either. I also think it’s my energy as well. My mom, grandmother, and aunts would dress nicely as well.
2026-08-04 02:22:57
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Jaqulyn :
Girl, my Granny too till she was 88 when she passed. Every day she put on makeup & got dressed even if she was just cooking all day . she said “always show up for yourself even when you have nowhere to go”🤍🤍🤍
2026-06-17 11:53:27
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Qiraat-moj :
“You are the occasion “ !!!
2026-08-01 13:33:46
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surfdiamond :
I used to work at Nordstrom and my fave customers were the abuelas who would iron their cash into crisp bills and spray them with perfume. Elegance and femininity to the max. I'll never forget it.
2026-07-30 16:26:24
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Carmen Leschnik CARRILLO :
I always tell my kids “It’s always better to be overdressed than underdressed”.
2026-07-28 03:00:31
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Jena 👩✈️ :
“YOU ARE THE OCCASION” GUUUUURRRRRLLLL yes
2026-06-17 22:11:15
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Rachel Camille :
My mom and her side of our family was this way… My mom is always dressed up even going to the grocery store, the doctor, and my house ❤️
2026-06-29 20:59:41
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Crystal :
There is nothing wrong with wanting to be dolled up when you go out about in town. That being said, it should not be a requirement to feel good. I feel good not doing all of those things. I don’t enjoy wearing makeup and being perfectly dressed. I want to be comfortable I feel my best when I feel comfortable. Your points are valid but not doing this is also okay.
2026-07-26 18:28:02
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tyvm.paper.goods :
“You ARE the occasion.” Clock it 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
2026-07-27 21:45:19
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user739374281354 :
I have a great aunt like that. She was so old but still beautiful!! She always had her hair nails and make up done and she always dressed so well with all of her accessories. I always admired her and that’s probably why I always keep my appearance up so well
2026-07-08 17:18:02
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Lisa Lipcsei :
You are strikingly beautiful & your style is smart, classic & sophisticated! Love it! 🥰⭐️
2026-07-12 21:22:19
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ladydilifestyle :
My mom is the same way! Always dressed even for her walk around the neighborhood she looks put together!
2026-06-17 19:11:08
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Seatwngrl :
Aw, this reminds me of my Nona, she was the exact same way ❤️
2026-06-17 03:55:50
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Iliana :
One hundred percent!!! 💯
2026-07-24 16:21:51
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LeAndrena :
Self care for me is more rest, but I do love to be high maintenance few times a week.
2026-06-17 17:43:00
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kelleydaring :
YES. It tells the world how you feel about yourself, and how they should feel about you.
2026-07-05 21:21:10
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Rochey | EQ & Mindset Guide :
Always transition to doing it for yourself, instead of worrying about others’ opinions
2026-06-17 00:18:07
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strobeyi shortcake :
you look so good in pink 🥰
2026-06-17 02:39:13
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Misty Unfiltered 😽🫶🏼 :
Yep
2026-06-20 11:03:47
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Gillian 🇵🇪 :
love this ♥️yessss we are the ocation 🙌🏻✨🥰
2026-06-17 22:56:17
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M. Cecilia Garcia :
Always look good💯💯💯
2026-06-17 04:59:15
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joanne.hermes :
Good points
2026-06-19 03:08:27
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Arlène :
I’m Congolese so I was absolutely raised this way
2026-06-17 18:06:52
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Lisaeesh13 :
I always wear makeup, when I stay home or when I go out, just because I feel complete when I do. And my number one rule of thumb is, always dress event appropriate. You can never go wrong.
2026-06-21 07:15:15
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Denise V :
Look good and feel good 😻
2026-06-17 04:09:30
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