@sunnysaleema: Live by the compliment, die by the insult! External validation does not define you ✨ #blackwomenoftiktok #writersoftiktok #externalvalidation #selfesteem
Yes. 💯Especially since people tend to say the same 10-20 compliments(and insults). Most of it is autoprogramming; best not to attached to either one.
2026-06-18 15:08:42
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Dai :
You caught my attention with that first line
2026-06-17 19:21:28
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Aja :
“I have already settled it for myself flattery and criticism go down the same drain and I am quite free” — Georgia O’Keefe
2026-06-19 18:37:41
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Kawiie :
Everyone’s opinion on you is literally their perception of how they see themselves and life as a whole it has nothing to do with you
2026-06-22 16:07:19
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michelemason_runs :
It’s true but a good compliment really makes my day man
2026-06-17 15:41:33
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Jen :
Gonna watch this 100 times so maybe it’ll sink in 🫶
2026-06-17 15:32:27
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TECH/ CANVAS/ UGC📸 :
that intro line clicked something in my brain
2026-06-17 16:32:25
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Luke B :
Thattt partttt
2026-06-17 15:29:20
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Ashont’e 🤍 :
Great quote!!!
2026-06-17 11:50:01
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Jeremy :
Added a wrinkle to my brain. Thank you ✨
2026-06-19 03:22:53
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jammykins :
“I have already settled it for myself so flattery and criticism go down the same drain and I am quite free.” - Georgia O'Keefe
2026-06-27 06:07:56
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Inspired By Fatema :
I really dgaf what people think. This goes for the good bad and ugly.
2026-06-18 21:07:30
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ayana 🍒 :
thank u
2026-06-19 04:27:54
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🏴☠️Bunny :
Love your hair
2026-06-30 18:09:35
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tim⚔️ :
Facts beautiful
2026-06-23 10:11:10
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chun li :
BARSSSS
2026-06-19 04:44:15
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AniLove :
THANK YOU FOR THIS MY LOC SISTER🥹😭❤️
2026-07-06 22:43:51
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Cee cee :
I appreciate a sincere compliment, but i know not to ground myself in external validation. It has been a struggle growing up Christian and with strict parents because it forced me to always seek external validation of my worthiness though 😢
2026-06-18 20:38:17
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Lysch :
WOW love that first quote keeping that
2026-06-18 00:55:48
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<3 :
I’m getting the first line tatted on me cause WHEW
2026-06-19 07:09:42
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