firefighter here. let them have the name tag. its a small piece out of alot of stuff. he was their brother and spent the other half of his life with his brothers. let them hold on to something of his to remember him by. you still have his last name.
2026-06-17 15:56:03
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George Garrett :
As a retired 32 year Firegighter. You wives are our true strength. He knew everyday he was loved. And you don’t know how much that gets us out of dark places. You are never alone. We have you…
2026-06-17 14:44:32
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𝕄𝕖𝕝_ℝ𝕠𝕤𝕖🌹𝔹𝕚𝕥 🦋/👊 :
my friend had this done for her husband 🫶❤️
2026-06-19 18:57:02
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Carrie C. :
Look in the bag that’s taped to the back of the flag case. My husband’s had a name plate in it.
2026-06-17 07:10:30
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Melissa :
As a fellow firefighter widow who is five years down this road, I am holding you so close in my heart today. The fire department brotherhood and sisterhood is a fierce family, and they will help keep his memory burning bright. Be gentle with yourself. We are all walking with you.
2026-06-17 12:23:29
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J Parr :
As a FF wife and mom, my heart goes out to you!!!
2026-06-17 11:17:04
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❌Therealheatherpurdue ❌ :
I’m a fire widow too, all of those precious items mean absolutely everything. ❤️🖤
2026-06-18 04:03:12
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migjrh :
New fire fighter Ma’am. I just finished my academy yesterday. I hope you mourn in peace. May nothing but blessings and love come your way. We’ll carry his torch with us. Boarder to boarder, coast to coast, we’re family. ❤️
2026-06-18 19:46:55
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Noble Nurse :
Even though I’m so damn mad at him, I cannot part with his jumpsuit uniform. Got rid of every other uniform. But the jumpsuit was my favorite. And when I found it in his stuff I jumped for joy. I show his badges to my grand daughter who will never know him. It’s ok to be sentimental one day and angry as hell the next. Today has been a sentimental day for me.
2026-06-17 04:55:10
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Jim ortiz :
Thank you for your support and service. Thank you for him. As his wife you served and sacrificed
2026-06-18 03:51:41
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Infernobuster :
As a current professional firefighter here in 🇨🇦.. condolences to you and your family and his dept.
2026-06-19 20:31:16
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glenn :
sending prayers and good thoughts stay strong gorgeous
2026-06-19 20:29:16
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TheSheepdog :
Former firefighter here. I am truly sorry for your loss. Our department has a memory wall for our lost firefighters. If y’all have one, maybe donate something to it for the department to remember him by. God bless. 🥰
2026-06-17 18:56:32
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Andrew Styles :
Lady you are immensely strong. You hit me in the feels.
2026-06-19 19:51:56
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Erin🎀🐾 UGC :
hi I'm new here but you might consider having a T-shirt or memory quilt made with his gear or shirts or clothes. it helps give you something to snuggle up with rather than keeping it all in boxes
2026-06-17 16:10:08
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Jj :
Sorry for your lost ! Thank you for supporting him and his other family so that he could PROTECT US ALL when we needed HELP ❤️🙏 LOVE YOU !!
2026-06-19 19:15:00
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mary beth :
You did good today (or yesterday) Stella. If you need to do more, do it. But if you need to cry and sniff his jacket, do that. I’m here with you hoping that strangers on the internet can help you get through the day to day 🫂🫂
2026-06-17 22:33:52
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marc_mib :
thank you for sharing.
2026-06-19 16:29:26
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Ri Bread :
Ooff. I’m so sorry, love. As a fellow FF wife, I am so sorry.
2026-06-17 03:30:33
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Judith Smith :
I don't know you but my deepest condolences for the lost of your husband..
2026-06-17 15:53:06
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the mechanicsville missile :
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss and I can understand wanting to keep those things but please, consider taking the turnout gear to his firehouse and ask them to run it through their gear washer if they hadn't already done that. It's very easy for carcinogens to embed in its structural fabrics and thats not something you want in your home. I'm sure the folks at the firehouse would be happy to do that for you.
Praying you find peace and strength.
2026-06-17 10:24:40
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Firewifey❌️ 📚📖📚 :
From a fellow Firewife I am very sorry for your loss
2026-06-17 13:58:50
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kimannieastro :
Life is going to get so much better for you, not because of your tremendous losses, but because you’re the chosen one, the healer, the helper, the teacher. It’s very clear. You are a very strong woman and have an amazing support system behind the scenes. ❤️🩹
2026-06-17 11:09:16
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Stringfellow.Hawke :
So sorry for your loss.
2026-06-17 14:50:06
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Les :
I’m so sorry for your loss ma’am. Also your video is a little blurry just thought you should know….
2026-06-17 09:53:17
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