@themoderndreamgirl: The patriarchy makes promises it never keeps 🌸 #themoderndreamgirl #women #men #marriage

Chloe Juliett 🌸 :

Idk why it says Patricia instead of patriarchy but that is misogyny 😤

Noah :

Oxford study

Patricia Jiménez :

No I don’t 🥺

user615973590243 :

I wish I knew you when I was 19 and started my free service to my husband for over 40 years of my life. He couldn’t manage to help me even when I would get overwhelmed. He would always agree but never ever do anything at all.

NicolaC 🇪🇺🇬🇧 :

The part about it being difficult to get power in the outside world is so true… I taught video game design and a student wrote about games being so addictive because he could achieve his goals in the game.

Lauren C. :

user7643567893214 :

Great points ✨

LadyKat 🇵🇷 :

Exactly, this is ME! But… with 2 children.

Willy._.Shakes :

Spot on

elizabethryan1978 :

Right!!

rejoice and mourn :

🤔 so you're describing relationships in the 50s?? cuz I haven't seen a single relationship that looks like this in the last 20 years

The Life of a Cat Girl :

No lies

alexistxu :

💯

LadyAndalusia :

💯💯💯

Mariela.Lachezarova :

And since we've managed to not just survive in a system built by d for them but actually build our lives independently, owning homes etc, they're now trying to revert the little freedoms we've achieved with the effort of generations of suffragettes & feminists, because we're opting out of this lie & no longer accepting to be obedient slaves. That's why they started diminishing, then banned the abortion, because a woman with a child is easier to be abused and manipulated in the couple & by the society & workplace. The same reason they push the "trad wife" trend & getting preggo before 25. Constantly violating our rights & abusing us without any repercussions by the judicial system. And now more & more movements pushing for abolishing our voting rights, forcing us to get married & have children with different government policies & laws, even in the EU they're planning similar nonsense. We should fiercely fight for our rights!

miss function :

and this is why I'm unmarried and do not have kids and I never will marry unless it legally benefits me to do so. which it won't. the UK are changing the law so you only have to live together to have marriage rights basically. so you bet, not living with a man unless it benefits me either. I will never live with a man who isn't clean tidy and financially savvy. if they aren't putting their home bills and food before hobbies.. I don't want to know. this is why men to me rn.. only good for sex

Magnus🇸🇪 :

Since you're in a relationship with a man, what does female appeasement actually look like for you, explicitly or systemically? You've described the pattern, so you should be closest to a concrete answer.

Sherms :

If, as a man, I’m already working, cooking, and cleaning for myself, I don’t need a woman in my life. If she’s only entering my life on the condition that I protect and provide, and would leave me the moment I can’t, then it’s the same conditional love I could get from a working girl. That isn’t love. That’s a conditional transaction. And if she’s hypergamous, constantly checking for better options and unwilling to stick it out through tough times, then there’s really no point in committing at all. I encourage any woman to judge her expectations of men and compare it to if she was in a lesbian relationship. Would she still expect the same things from her partner in those relationships?