this made me discover alterous attraction. i’m ascending rn hol up
2026-06-20 20:43:54
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aianaya :
i love explaining alterous attraction to people because they always react so strongly and relate to it perfectly lol
2026-06-20 05:56:33
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loserzandik :
people are reinventing friends being affectionate
2026-06-20 19:38:13
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Left-Right-Lee :
“Queer platonic friendships” “alterous attractions” and its just the deep community ties and inherent love humans are supposed to have that abrahamic religious patriarchy combined with capitalism took from us 😭💔
2026-07-21 18:20:17
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averi :
One thing I love about being aroace is that we can explore all the possibilities of what attraction can be outside of what is considered romantic/sexual and I find that so cool. Not every relationship can be described with the labels that exist in our languages
2026-06-19 23:54:39
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callistarsss :
i was so happy to discover alterous attraction cuz it described my situation PERFECTLY but then i realized like nobody else knows what that is so nothing can ever come of it 🥲
2026-06-20 09:13:10
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globean :
Exactly exactly
2026-08-20 04:35:57
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•°☆•° Aster °•★•° :
I just don’t understand the difference for friendship no matter how it’s explained. “Well we can cuddle and hold hands” I do that with my friends. “Well it’s like blurred lines between the two” but you create the lines in any relationship. Like I don’t get it 😭
2026-07-07 00:10:49
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Tillmyboi,my favorite son :
Guys anyone wanna tell me
2026-06-19 15:44:40
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sage 🫥 :
me and my QPP ❤️we’re life partners and engaged. i can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him by my side.
2026-06-21 02:36:24
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Echo :
I love being aro and talking to aro people because it shows me how truly diverse the human experience is
2026-06-20 15:19:33
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Th3Ev3ningStar • 🔮🍉 :
In response to caption, you can be a type of aroace called Oriented Aroace! Basically you feel a strong type of attraction separate from romantic/sexual (strong enough that you know you feel it despite it not being a romantic feeling or otherwise)
2026-06-20 06:52:27
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𝓒𝓻𝓸𝔀 ──⃝─⃝⃝⃝⃝─𝓢𝔂𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓶 :
Alloromantic here! I don't fully understand but it's like when you love someone not in a romantic way, but it still goes beyond friendship? I'm not inaccurate? Please correct me if I'm wrong!
2026-06-21 01:53:46
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kiwi >~< :
i was today year’s old when i found out that’s basically what me and my partner are. he’s aroace, im on the aro spectrum and demisexual. we aren’t /together/ but we are.. together? this literally describes us perfectly (‘:
2026-06-23 02:02:06
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abyss angel ΘΔ :
this + aesthetic attraction. like oh theres words for how i feel? thats awesome
2026-07-01 04:16:38
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maple_the_maybe_not_girl :
Can you please explain what queer platonic relationships are to me? because how I’ve only been told that it’s two friends who aren’t romantically attracted to each other who act like they’re dating and that doesn’t make sense to me because people don’t treat it that way. Is it like friendship squared?
2026-07-03 03:54:54
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ph4ntom :
For anyone confused (who isn’t being a dick about it) think of it like the nonbinary of relationship types
2026-07-16 07:18:58
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FloweryLanguage :
I can say it with my chest here but not irl: i like the idea of kissing my friends on the lips, i currently tell them that i love them very often, and if any of them asked to marry me i’d most likely say yes. The three of them are my light and i’d die in a heartbeat if they needed me to and i’d live to be 200 if they asked me on a whim. They’ll probably never feel the same back, but maybe i’ll be in their lives long enough for them to understand. AV, CD, AM, yall have my heart
2026-06-29 22:30:58
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KSweets :
been in a qpr for about 2 and a half years, and this has been by far the happiest i’ve been in a relationship
2026-06-20 20:59:00
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rosie :
I always feel bad, im aroacespec but feel like im incapable of alterous attraction:(. which is fine, but it gets talked about so much in the community that I feel like im not a "good" aroace for not being capable of those feelings 😭. like I feel platonic love often and have felt romantic love only once in my life, but my mind/heart doesn't seem to feel capable of feeling something in between. and I feel bad for fellow aroace friends who have hinted at wanting a qpr, but I have no desire for one :((
2026-07-04 00:24:28
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Kass🚦|🐁🌕 :
Holy shit I think I just discovered something about myself
2026-06-19 00:55:51
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Marty✨ :
as a demisexual I know this feeling so hard
2026-06-21 22:21:04
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Ziegler // :
im asexual and im starting to realize this is kinda the relationship I want, is this more common with asexual people?
2026-06-21 04:14:26
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