@sharkbyte420: 6 times unfaithful. most were nudes pics/videos to other men. mostly white guys, one married Asian that she was the bridesmaid at the wedding and found out shes sending naked videos to that husband and naked Pic. only 1 guy had his member in her many times leading to our marriage, only finding out the day after the marriage. wedding ended at 1am, got the call from side man the next morning at 10am. shes been found to be cheating 4 times after. (no intercourse beside the relationship she had with the guy that called me the day after the wedding to tell me the truth) she continued to talk to him for a year after I forgave her and she asked if she can keep him as a friend. does this give me the godly right to release my vows in marriage? I ask because I honor my vows like a knight. I believe I've been fair with my wife, best friend, mother of my daughter. lmk what you think.