@annabrading: Ad. I genuinely think a lot of money tension in relationships comes because of conversations we don’t have, rather than the ones we do. So here are 5 money questions that I think are useful to ask each other regularly: 1. Where are you feeling the pinch right now? 2. Who else do we want to help financially? 3. Is our budget actually still working for our lives now? 4. What are we actually saving for? 5. What do we want our future to look like? Coming from someone who’s been married for nearly 18 years, and definitely learned a lot of this through trial and error, not perfection. And thank you to @PensionBee for collaborating with me on this video. Their Pension Calculator is genuinely one of the best tools I’ve found for helping make future planning conversations feel more real and less overwhelming. Which of these conversations do you think couples avoid the most? #AD #savingmoney #PersonalFinance