I'm like James from Derry Girls for my wife and our friends
2026-06-17 13:05:01
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Brenden Cook :
My husband put a cooler with snacks & drinks in our bedroom during my 30th birthday girls night so that he wouldn’t disturb us by walking to the fridge 😂
2026-06-18 01:58:07
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shelleyskylarks :
This has the making of a romantasy:
"Ghost Butler Husband"
"My husband, the Ghost Butler"
2026-06-17 16:41:15
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gracelikekelly :
Love a man w good EQ ✨🫶🏼
2026-06-17 13:12:58
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srgntsparkles :
A ghosty hosty 🥰
2026-06-17 22:20:19
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carrie :
The man cuts fruit and then goes upstairs. We love him for it
2026-06-17 17:09:41
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Maggie Gehlsen-Burnett :
very helpful and very scarce 😭
2026-06-17 23:29:49
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Jess :
“A friendly benevolent helpful presence, but never too present” 👌🏼
2026-06-18 09:36:29
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The Texan Leftist :
The Needs Anticipator 3000 (defaults to silent mode before every event)
2026-06-17 17:48:37
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Bri Mitchell Travels 🗺️ :
This is an incredible take. My father in law was all too accustomed to leaving when my MIL hosted book club. He taught his sons the art of ethical ghosting very well 😅
2026-06-17 17:26:13
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Lindsey Nicole :
The never weird part is so so so key
2026-06-17 18:28:40
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Sher :
Casper the friendly ghost
2026-06-17 21:42:55
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whycats7 :
When we were dating, my husband went out for drinks on NYE with me and one of my friends. She and I then wanted to go dancing but that’s not his scene and headed home, which I was fine with. At 12:30 when we were ready to go home and uber surge pricing was crazy that man then got back in his car to pick us up and bring us back home. He’s a catch.
2026-06-18 18:54:22
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Jillian Jackson :
My friend and I go to Costco together sometimes because I have the membership. She said once “man I wish you’d brought your husband to push the cart” 😂😂 this is my husband to a T!
2026-06-17 14:20:23
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Mango Hussy 🥭 :
Lol my partner’s older sisters made him play “butler” when they were kids and it made him exceptionally good at exactly what you’re describing, when you said a mix of butler and ghost I was like omg that’s exactly it 😂
2026-06-17 18:46:54
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user9531430098182 :
YES! Had a bonfire and he made sure it was setup for us at the beginning and then went inside to play video games, came back out ON HIS OWN to stoke the fire and get it going again. Then went back in after 🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-17 23:38:00
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Ella Jando-Saul :
I feel like the sort of queer friend group I am trying to cultivate is one where the division between the friends and the partners is blurred and activities are shared by people of all genders who are interested in this activity
2026-06-17 17:46:49
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kickpuncher420 :
Awww. I’m so happy he’s so perfect but when are his friends coming?
2026-06-17 13:01:29
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elise :
My husband will, unprompted, make a charcuterie for me for girls night, then leave for the evening. I feel real good about that one lol
2026-06-27 07:31:52
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chelsea :
My friends' husband does the butler/ghost thing very well but when he does join the conversation he's actually funny - a rarity.
2026-06-27 14:19:09
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Renegade Nelly :
My best friend's husband is like this. He's the one making sure we always have ice at pool parties. He fills up mimosa glasses, participates in gossip for a few minutes, then he vanishes. Scarce, helpful, never weird.
2026-06-22 14:28:11
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