@phoenixpathway: He Is Negotiating Your Memory To Avoid Accountability He is not remembering the argument differently he is rewriting history so that he never owes you an apology. When you hedge your words and doubt your own reality just to keep the conversation calm you are letting him win by default. Your willingness to compromise is only useful if it is mutual. Stop backpedaling and debating the facts. State what you know happened hold your ground and stop letting him substitute his version for the truth. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
"I never said that". Shows him the message where he did, in fact say that....."ok but I didn't mean it the way you took it"
2026-08-03 00:40:05
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Kir :
And this is why I started recording conversations…
2026-07-13 14:56:11
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Gheeg :
Sometimes assuming best intentions is just a projection
2026-06-17 17:42:20
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aliengr0wth :
You really just GET it wtf man
2026-07-06 00:27:05
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Tasneem :
I get told i was gaslighting because i didn't remember the version he told me when it was because it never happened and i have screenshots to back that up. It was exhausting.
2026-07-08 13:27:32
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LeftyLeftist :
I’m done arguing with his imagination. I’m out.
2026-07-23 16:00:45
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it's me :
my soon-to-be ex-husband recently argued with me when I talked about 3 years ago how he didn't come to Build-A-Bear with me and his mom to get our son his first bear and I had to call him to wake him up to record a message for the bear because he's in the Navy and leaves often and he tried to tell me that he was there at the store and I said I know you weren't there at the store how are you remembering being somewhere where you very clearly were not. you wanted to sleep instead of coming with us and I vividly remember it. like I remember calling you to record this message. and he would not believe me. until I called his mom and was like he didn't come with us right and she's like no I'm like okay cool
2026-06-18 10:29:12
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lumakate :
That's when I realized he wasn't worth it.
2026-06-17 22:29:27
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Catherine Yay :
Mine always comes back with: But no, that’s not what happened. What I meant was… 🙄 (Make it make sense.)
2026-07-11 23:29:55
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Charlene ✨️ Grief & Healing ✨️ :
everything you post is 10/10. Spot on every time!!!
2026-07-02 22:24:52
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Lindsay Cheek music :
I’m so tired.
2026-07-06 08:05:34
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IrishCherokee_ :
Yes, so exhausting. 🥺I’d tell him this is what I lived, what I feel. He always say, “that’s not the case .” ?!?!🥺
2026-07-06 09:25:14
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🌹🦢✨Tzipporah✨🦢🌹 :
If I don’t budge and let him have it his way then i get belittled for “changing the story” or told im just avoiding accountability… when i come to him with my emotions. I’d say there’s no winning- but I’m not trying to win. I just want to be seen and have understanding. ☹️UGHHHH. These videos make me cry.
2026-06-19 01:20:32
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Jordan 🌻 :
Timing is better, saving for tonight when I’m ready to cry.
2026-06-17 16:54:26
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mindy :
🤍no longer willing to lose.....
2026-06-18 10:46:11
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Betty Ann Rutherford :
“Only useful if it’s mutual” 🔥
2026-06-17 14:32:53
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amy.realistically :
I laughed out loud 3x because of how real this is.
2026-06-18 18:47:25
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minnie74house :
With them, it’s always a strategy. I appreciate how you say “the next time try this”. This has helped me see so clearly.
2026-06-28 14:54:56
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user5727289267888 :
Mine completely invalidates me
2026-06-17 19:08:08
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spycegyrl :
yes I did this a lot. Even when I knew he was lying I blew it off
2026-06-17 18:16:40
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Sanitysandy :
Oof. Needed this
2026-06-17 13:55:39
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bugdocyogi :
I just can't handle your hair. I've never been so jealous of a man's mane before 😭
2026-07-20 21:19:01
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chrismiss53 :
It took awhile but I caught on to rhe gaslighting 😳😳😳😳
2026-07-23 09:20:33
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Lauren :
Bingo.
2026-06-19 03:12:08
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Hi❤️I'm❤️Laura :
Sir, I've only met you today and this is spot on video number 3. My feelings should be hurt but it's my season of acceptance and healing
2026-06-27 04:08:33
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