@opallauryn: Firedddddddddd #weaponizedincompentence #mentalload #patriarchy #domesticviolence #relationships

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another1sweetiepie
Musicalnerdinclined :
Mind you: the list pretty much stays the same with slight variations of tasks. He should know what the tasks are and is asking for a list
2026-06-17 22:54:57
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christianeschultz3
christianeschultz🇨🇦 :
talking nicer at work than at home.
2026-06-17 22:01:07
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lisa022468
Lisa :
Or they say your list wasn’t clear and I didn’t know what you meant. You should’ve communicated it better..
2026-06-18 11:00:01
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shelbysheppard400
Cheesy Shelby :
I used to say "do you think there's like a troll or something that tells me when we need to wash our towels?"
2026-06-17 17:36:23
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madam_ruby_
Ruby :
This makes me happy I’m single
2026-06-17 18:26:28
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alyce_eliza
alyce_eliza :
It’s about paid vs unpaid labour.
2026-06-18 08:49:10
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nikkieneal
nikkieneal :
People not understand the analogy in these comments is astounding… 😭
2026-06-17 21:44:31
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glendalandia
glendalandia :
weaponized incompetence is abuse
2026-06-18 02:50:55
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karasbattlecry
Kára Sólstjarna :
I'm well aware that my partner makes significantly more money than me. I'm full time WFH and he's hybrid (3 days WFH) however I work longer hours. Yet I am expected to do 100% of the household work on top of my job. It's exhausting.
2026-06-18 01:56:25
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rawveganrules
Rachel :
OMG, greeeeaattttt analogy!!
2026-06-17 19:58:25
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lilyjanehollander
Tetegugu :
When my husband say remind me i never do instead i say you seem to remember so well when it’s about ur job or anything else of your friends why would i need to remind u about home.
2026-06-18 08:56:31
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sleepyhead0304
Kaitlin 🍉 :
I can’t repost but just know I was here and I’m annoyed
2026-06-17 18:57:41
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randomguy8492
just some guy :
hey so fun fact this work/boss analogy and comparison is disingenuous and wrong because simply your partner is not your boss. your partner has no authority over you. your partner is your equal. so a more apt comparison would be to change the scenario from "boss" to "co-worker".
2026-06-17 20:30:45
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user18140328516513
user18140328516513 :
Actually it’s more like asking 100000 questions about the list lol
2026-06-17 22:41:53
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nikidawood
Niki Dawood :
So glad I’m single 💯
2026-06-17 20:14:48
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vmars73
amysullivandc :
Every time, I’m like “How would you find the answer to something for work? Do you ask other people to look it up for you? Why is their time important but I am your personal Google?”
2026-06-18 03:54:57
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arp0987
Angry.Queen0987 :
I used to live this life. Now, I have a man who FULLY participates in every part of our relationship. Sometimes, I feel worried he might resent me and he never has. He tells me it's just as much his job as mine.. AND he works a tough job all day and he doesn't complain. He says the more we do together, the more time we have together at the end of the day.
2026-06-17 18:46:24
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booth1022
booth1022 :
I don't think weaponized incompetence is not doing tasks because your partner asked
2026-06-17 15:51:02
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user16165433219
user16165433219 :
I’ve had to have this conversation with my mother multiple times
2026-06-17 20:19:19
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ghostscription
Ghost :
single as a Pringle for 3 years now
2026-06-17 21:17:11
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dinocrates
Prof. Steve :
I don't know what kind of work you did... But every program I worked on did have a detailed to do list. We'd put together the to do list at the start of the program, with all the steps, priority, and dependencies, and then we'd agree who was responsible for each task. We'd keep track of who was working on what on a big board that tracked everything.... maybe a system like that could work?
2026-06-17 22:44:48
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stephmel33
Stephanie Melendez :
I still am as a single mother.
2026-06-17 22:52:16
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bohhnee
Bohhnee :
TIK TOKS ON THIS TOPIC ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING ON THE INTERNET
2026-06-18 08:45:32
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micardz18
Mica Rodriguez :
Complete tangent… I love that pillow in the back on your couch I need it
2026-06-17 22:49:48
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batlybehaved
justadropofmischief :
right???
2026-06-17 22:52:12
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