@raileymolinario: Effort that only moves in one direction is exhausting to sustain. You plan the dinner. You book the reservation. You think about what they'd enjoy and what would make them feel special. And they show up. And they got comfortable just appearing. This is about what consistent one sided effort says over time. That the relationship matters more to one person than the other. Here's what to do: 1. Stop planning. Completely. See what happens when you step back. What they do in that space will tell you everything. 2. Have the honest conversation. "I have been carrying the effort of keeping us connected and I need that to be shared." 3. Be specific about what you need. Give them the chance to show up differently before you decide they won't. 4. Pay attention to the response. Someone who loves you will take this seriously. The response is data. 5. Decide what you're willing to accept. A relationship where one person plans everything and the other just appears is not a partnership. You deserve someone who thinks about you when you're not in the room. 🩶 Comment "POWER" below and I'll send you the link directly. 👇🏽 #DateNight #RelationshipEffort #OneSidedRelationship
