This happened to me. He said, you're not going to tell me who I can and can't talk to. I told him idgaf who you talk to, it's what you say to them that matters.
2026-06-17 20:14:43
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caroleharris5 :
DON'T GET INVOLVED WITH AN AVOIDANT ITS IMPOSSIBLE
2026-06-17 20:56:07
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Michael :
Exactly, I said, I dont mind if you have friends, I have friends too. You have met my friends, I want to meet your friends too
2026-06-18 04:21:35
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warren2oxide :
this happened to me recently 😭
2026-06-17 15:45:06
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Kyle :
Yep I’m crazy I’m insecure I’m insane
2026-06-17 21:15:51
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sparrowsess :
Yes, this is the EXACT fight we’ve been having for 2 years. I just wanted to feel comfortable.
2026-06-17 18:21:50
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suzannewould :
Omg this happened early and I didn’t realize;
2026-07-05 00:25:27
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Vishnu :
Avoidants don't exist, they're just not that into you
2026-06-18 19:16:49
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thebunnelljournal :
I hate this 😔
2026-06-23 11:21:52
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ourphic :
This just opened my eyes as an anxious attachment. Thank you for bringing awareness sweet human
2026-06-20 02:01:10
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Curtis Friesen :
Yeah and then they also do the same thing to you and you abide because it’s called ✨compromise✨ but they never actually respect it from their side
2026-07-17 13:46:47
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brunoconti310 :
I said exactly that, she responded word by word what you said. She is an ex now.
2026-06-18 18:15:51
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Charlie :
Nothing to do with an ex.
2026-06-18 07:50:12
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Sarreal :
kinda hard, she says she's avoidant but asks me weather if she did something wrong and if I'm jealous so she could assure me.
The only problem is she's having trouble expressing herself
2026-06-19 14:46:38
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YepItsMe4444 :
Ok I see. I love your videos! But what if they say defensive things like “you know where I am! I’m not seeing anyone else!!!!!” when I hadn’t made any such accusation and didn’t even think anything like that. I’m just stunned like where did that come from????? I just said hey what’s going on?
2026-06-19 01:31:34
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𝗦𝗘𝗔𝗪𝗘𝗔𝗗 :
we were wow🥺
2026-07-08 11:07:17
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philip Cyr :
All I wanted was to be introduced to her friends or at least go out with him and she bolted. I don’t think that’s too much to ask and I definitely don’t think it was my fault especially after seven years.
2026-06-19 00:29:12
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Fran :
What the avoidant should do it about?
2026-06-17 18:22:52
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hunky st180 :
What if they went behind ya back with them and still on contact with them or there comments still about
2026-06-18 09:02:41
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happiness101 :
what if they do all your saying but puts aggressive demands that you aint aloud to have friends visit and gets argumentive when you see anyone but they go around doing what ever they like?
2026-06-25 09:43:09
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❌️ Randy ❌️ :
Going off alone my butt!
2026-06-19 00:53:23
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Amelia Chanteja Ⓜ️ :
🙄
2026-06-17 15:42:27
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snowisia :
what i hate about avoidants is that they are fine with you having opposite sex friends because they detach then emotionally if they feel unsafe and maybe themselves connect more with others so they don’t bother but just emotionally detach and make relairosnhip less deep while i fucking can’t live that way being in a relairosnhip. like for me we’re deep and connected or we’re not at all. and they can stay in relationships while drifting away emotionally
2026-06-19 21:26:30
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Jordan :
Define how they talk to the opposite sex. That’s a big one lol.
2026-06-17 21:05:54
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