Mel Robbins
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Wednesday 17 June 2026 15:10:07 GMT
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the.ashley.files :
unfortunately, this takes a significant amount of empathy and patience
2026-06-17 23:23:33
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Deanna Pino :
To have a connection with someone who doesn’t get defensive would be amazing
2026-06-17 20:04:21
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MaiyaJhane :
This conversation is both parties remaining curious. Neither are assuming one or the other is attacking them or have ill intent.
2026-06-18 00:54:20
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Kim :
Can you show the next argument where John still didn’t wipe the counters and Julie feels ignored/unheard?
2026-06-24 15:25:02
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CutieCrafts by Vanessa :
If I were to speak like this to my husband he would think I’m being sarcastic 😅
2026-06-18 17:51:05
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Mika :
It’s literally maintaining respect through it all.
2026-06-17 17:57:02
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Kelsey Allyn :
I love the Gottman theory!
2026-06-18 02:28:11
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HappyAminah :
Let me tell you, 100% she told him milion times to wipe it and he never did. Arguments never happen because someone didn't do something. It happens because even though she asked many times, he still ignores it.
2026-06-18 02:13:32
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Smrtygirl :
I know of zero couples who do this
2026-06-18 00:24:48
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ShreddedbyFaith :
in order for this work both people have to some level of healing and emotional intelligence. Problem is that most people have unresolved trauma and are not able to express themselves effectively.
2026-06-17 21:06:54
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Dizzy D :
It takes 2. Always. That's the hard part
2026-06-18 23:57:22
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Rose :
Damn. I need to be more patient and intentional to my man
2026-06-18 19:16:21
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Ashurina :
Ahh I love the gottman theory!! Totally helped my marriage
2026-06-17 17:27:28
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Ginny Lovelace :
In no world will it go down that way
2026-06-17 20:30:10
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Charity | Mommy Ministry :
mmm curiosity, a desire to listen, working together to find a resolution
2026-06-19 11:23:57
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buy me a pancreas :
and also they are both totally emotionally regulated in the moment
2026-06-19 01:32:11
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Tiffany Griffin RT (R) :
My husband hates me. I am sure he regrets the day we met.
2026-06-18 23:16:43
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whatchaooing :
my husband would never be able to do this
2026-07-31 16:04:41
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lifeaccordingtov :
RESPECT...period
2026-06-18 21:48:32
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Sarah Amaral-Weston :
👏💯yees! this! thank you! im sayin! my husband and I have done this and are very much like this a lot of the time! chefs 💋to this!
2026-06-18 00:34:24
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Nimmo :
NVC - non violent communication. say your observations, state how you feel, share your needs and finish by requesting.
2026-06-18 09:20:23
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TB333 :
Exactly setting clear expectations and respecting each other will change your life
2026-06-19 01:10:54
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SummerDay ☀️ :
This is how my husband and I talk to each other. This is real!
2026-06-18 18:00:11
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trashcan :
i’m 30.. been with the same man since 23. we’ve never had to yell when we disagree. if it’s too much, we say “i need some time to figure out what i really want to say” and the other person respects that space
2026-06-18 22:51:12
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Sarah Starr :
acknowledging the emotion first is the most important part that I look for!!! I want to feel seen and heard, not just jump straight into logistics. a quick "I'm so sorry that you're feeling that way and for my role in adding to those feelings" - like she demonstrated here - takes so much of the tension away for me. then it's easier to move into a problem solving headspace.
2026-06-19 17:38:27
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