IMMATERIA: Notes + Hot Takes
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Wednesday 17 June 2026 18:39:26 GMT
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Caribou-Lou :
I watered myself way down first and they still didn’t like me😭
2026-06-17 23:26:59
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HellKain_k66 :
Why are they so mad my domain expansion is overriding their domain?
2026-06-17 20:48:07
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Tey On Things :
wrong. non participation is not participating
2026-06-18 04:48:37
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Morgan G. :
Yes I came to this conclusion about my life. It’s a tragic irony. I don’t agree with my parents full integration into capitalism but their success is the reason I have the freedom to disengage from the system. It’s crazy
2026-06-17 21:34:58
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itsjazercastillon :
Don't shrink yourself just so you would become palatable to other people. The right people will find themselves in your life.
2026-06-18 02:47:56
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Sosa :
Nope. Some of us truly aren’t participating at all. You may haven’t gotten to that point yet.
2026-06-18 05:01:28
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Danny :
There’s definitely a form of mutual respect that is necessary in order to engage efficiently with anyone but you should never just become a yes man out of survival or else you are literally diminishing yourself to become less than them. There’s things we can definitely disagree on and it’s fine but if it’s something major that relates to one’s own morals you should never betray yourself. No one is coming to save you other than yourself but obviously don’t put yourself in danger out of trying to “enlighten” or connect with people that have never and will never respect you or your opinions. You have to meet people where they’re at.
2026-06-17 22:37:33
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Nen 🐻❄️🫀🦇 :
You don’t even have to say anything ppl project and they notice things they notice if you workout or what your routine is and they feel judged
2026-06-18 18:37:53
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Leah :
there is absolutely a hierarchy. yes it is better not to judge than to judge. and rightly so ppl SHOULD look down on ppl who judge. it's not just scripture it's perfect philosophy. judge not lest yea be judged! as you so eloquently pointed out
2026-06-18 08:42:33
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maybenot :
This is precisely why I don’t offer my two cents to loved ones especially when I recognise we have very different lives and personality - it’s not applicable and it’s hurtful to imply that what I have to say is any better just because my life is different to theirs. I like to take the stance that how I live is a preference not the ‘right way’ - it’s simply the ‘right way’ for myself, as my own person. When loved ones who are very different to me ask for advice, I give an opinion with a disclaimer of “if I was in this situation” or “this is my opinion of what’s good to do in this situation, knowing the context of your wants and needs”. My father doles out advice as though his opinion is law and anyone who wouldn’t make the same choice is an idiot - I never wish to do this to anybody as I have felt how dismissive of me it can be.
2026-06-17 23:49:58
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Whosthatgirlllllll333 :
What are you even talking about
2026-06-18 17:46:39
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thetijuanastrangler :
But what if it is better and the person just wants to inspire. I like people like that, it pisses me off in a good way
2026-06-18 07:55:16
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Jhivan Co. Candles :
Hmmmmm. U just described me lol I hate a lot of hierarchies in friendships, the workplace and relationships. I never get too close because I don’t agree and plan to leave or distance myself. I just don’t have the energy to play the game it feels fake to me.
2026-06-18 01:06:19
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erk :
don't think less of yourself, think of yourself less 🙇🏻♂️
2026-06-18 00:38:22
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Mae Amore’ 🪐 :
I swear i learned this the hard way, just my energy gave it off. I didn’t even know i was doing it
2026-06-18 16:23:54
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Abraxas :
What really haunts me is im really not smart enough for so many people to be this much stupider than me 🥰🥺🥰🥺🥰🥺🥰🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
2026-06-19 00:17:11
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1oneyourself :
this deep brother
2026-06-18 13:36:31
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margaretthatcherstaint :
The problem is tacit compliance doesn’t satisfy most people in toxic situations. Accepting their standards but not capitulating becomes the issue. You shifting can give them cause to further encroach on your boundaries.
2026-06-19 02:06:05
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cherrybytesgaming :
Bros just talking to say words
2026-06-18 17:28:22
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Christian McGoggle :
i thought you made sense
2026-06-21 09:57:51
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Xerroshi :
people hide judgment within pity and remove themselves from the accountability of the act
2026-07-26 03:23:39
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Jp :
this app is wizardry
2026-06-19 20:16:41
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Goo goo hops :
And this is why my brother said ‘you seem to think you’re better than everyone’ the very first time I set a reasonable boundary
2026-06-19 08:46:09
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Processing :
Amazing flow ❤️🔥
2026-07-02 04:16:48
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Princess Inxie :
They value different things from me
2026-07-24 22:14:41
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