@hey.shainamarie: #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals

𝑎𝑙𝑦𝑠𝑠𝑎 :

Problem is I cry every time I try to talk about anything that upsets me

Monika Castro :

I crashed out internally and sat with myself and analyzed my feelings that when it finally came out it came out so soft and not accusatory he adjusted without me even really directly addressing it

themassagebestie :

“I appreciate all the time you spend with me. It would be more attractive to me if we did earlier dates and this would be better for me”. Boundaries and Gratitude and then silence if needs aren’t met.

Jessica Reviews Things :

This sounds like gentle parenting advice 😂

Pretty Brain | 🧿👽🧿 :

being a fire sign ruins this for me 😮‍💨 I get spicy quick

Amber :

I did this. He said, I told you my life was fluid. I can’t help when things change or pop up. 😳

HolisticMamaMarie :

Yeah ain’t nobody got time for this 👑

Jennifer :

It’s just genuinely expressing your thought and feelings without spiraling

S :

What if he’s not my man, Still applies ?

Jamila Stewart | FL Realtor :

Girl this was so good! I just wish I could be this calm in the moment

sunrise_sunrise_ :

What I’ve found difficult is that when you do drop into this Energy it can almost come off as condescending if it’s not how you normally speak. I’ve slowed down and been the most intentional is when I haven’t told it’s like I’m their teacher or mom or giving a TED talk (this was just from an ex anyway)

karamariamoscatelli :

I’ve had conversations just like this with my man and he responds so differently then the guys I used to talk to. He actually listens and hears me and wants to be better for us and for me, he values the same things as me. Responding with focused feelings !! Yes yes yes make calm part of your lifestyle and find peace because if you can’t calm down that’s okay, that’s just telling you something you need to heal🫶💛 love this sm you said it so well

meegsmcg :

What about if it’d him stopping doing the little things like getting me flowers, getting me snacks at the gas stations little things like that??

Famouss | Jewel Dropper :

Daniela Kooyip 🦋 :

My fire side “if you ain’t gonna do it, just save us the trouble and don’t say it Pinocchio”

Dani Đ Dao :

Very healthy advice thank you ❤️

hollz_dollz :

You explained this SOO well. It helped me really connect with what my therapist tells me. Especially about not address judgements.

girlngun :

Wise as a serpent gentle as a dove 💜💜

Pretty on purpose 😘🥰 :

What if he’s NOT YOUR MAN YET!

persephonealune :

Ohhh

BILLING FORMATS FOR BADDIES :

Thanks for sharing this ❤️

🐾🖤🐾CookiesWorld2020 :

This is so good!!!

KodakkBlacccc :

And do

michelle :

Ohhhhh

AriaSherzoy :

This is amazing even when talking about anything!