@thesickpoetsociety: Be very weary of anyone who coaches or advises you on how to get your avoidant whatever “back”. These “coaches” are incentivized to tell you what you want to hear rather than what you need to hear, which is getting an avoidant person “back” should not be your center focus, getting yourself back to a better place needs to be what’s driving you forward. Getting over the cycle of pain and withdrawal your avoidant whatever instigated is far more important. #avoidant #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #relationships #fyp