@l4zzykn0ows: #yellowfont #honesty #foryou #fy

Who knows :

It’s called reactive abuse mostly done by narcissists or manipulative people

💕𝒜𝒾𝓂ℯℯ💕 :

Then they call ME the abuser

HB!! ♠️ 💸 :

the audacity to blame me for literally everything when i excused the emotional abuse you put me through by saying we’re all human and my dad defended him with the “he’s just a teen boy” and i let it all slide.

Mitsu :

My mom tried to k*** herself once to threaten me (I was in 2nd or 3rd grade btw) for being a bad child and then yelled at me for crying

薔薇 :

how I feel crying for 4 hours and blaming myself for everything when they were in the wrong

Obi Wan :

Reactive abuse is real abuse. You can’t ignore every single boundary of mine, every single attempt I made to talk things out calmly, make me have to explain what you did and why it was wrong or how it made me feel 50 fucking times, and push and push and push until I have to SNAP at you to get you to listen, and then play the sad ignorant victim. Especially if you conditioned this behavior into me and it became an instinct of mine to snap first talk after because you did this to me for years as a growing teenager(the most important learning stage of my life), and then act like I’m some evil asshole when I snap at you without talking to you first. My tolerance for you is 0 and you did that. Especially if when I do this you then use my vents against me in an argument and then beg me not to stop being vulnerable with you after I call it out.

Ruben :

They know what they did.

wiskyy :

and then they answered "does it justify your actions afterwards?" maybe not but the thing is they failed to recognize the amount of disrespect they did

Us3r__k★ :

Then they say that I’m too sensitive

⁷ :

Heavy on that

user00809001 :

i know i was wrong but i hope u also reflect.

niyuu81 :

Genuienly why do they do this

أَيَّان🥥 :

Like Wdym 4 people are ganging up on me for wanting one of them to delete a video of me

༺𝔤𝔦𝔤𝔦༻ :

I’ve literally never cut off a friendship before, but the fact she didn’t even have a excuse for what she did already said enough

kae. :

shame on them.

𝓢𝓲𝓶𝓸𝓷𝓪 :

i hate it

saddollxo :

SmolMinchy•>• :

“Not my fault you felt it that way! 🙄” when their tone and face said it all 🫩

Sylvia :

I am never going back to those people

wheresmytinfoilhatbro :

I now hate me

𐔌՞. .՞𐦯 :

others actions don't dictate yours. you are your own person with your own conscience and control.

awe_tism_maximus :