@notesonhealingg:

Olivia :

Last time I make myself look dumb for loving someone sm

lyka :

glad to say i gave it my all though :)

Mina🫧 :

I fear that I’m living this rn

R :

i hope this is not happening to anyone

roxxe :

It was not obsession, it was the first time I loved with all my heart, and it was the first time in which the ego did not exist.

Marilyn :

yeah i’m obsessed with you bc i loved you and cared for you like nobody has . i showed you what LOVE truly is.

Жанна Русланова :

My therapist suggested that maybe my brain is not used to feeling ease, peace and stillness, so it’s purposefully diving into discomfort, it’s a paradox bc I felt more comfortable in discomfort and rush of thoughts, cause that felt familiar. Told me to read Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson and it changed my reality, big recommendation.

Harel_levi7 :

I don't know if I would call it an obsession. It was my first time loving someone like that. I tried so hard to make things work between us, and there was a time when she loved me just as much. Sometimes I wonder where all that love went. Despite everything, I loved her truly, and I still hope life brings her happiness and everything she's looking for.

i called him today after i cut him off from everything, and i know that seems unbelievable to him, but it was so hard for me to stay in this gray area of no certainty, i love him more than myself, and when i called him i genuinely regretted it, i realise that i really have no self respect, while he has the ego and self respect of a mountain. while i have none for myself. and for the first time i heard he said he’s tired of me. he doesn’t love me anymore. because me cutting him off. i guess this is the last time ill ever love this hard, and iknow it’ll took years to get over.

مراد :

maybe i'm a crazy obsessed ex after all

flora :

the disgust i feel for him is now even stronger than the love i once felt. my worst heartbreak, i don't think i can love again after this

JakiwiOG :

Oh yeah😂. I’ve stopped myself from behaving like this. Hard asf but I guarantee I’ll be victorious.

BabyMike :

first ever real gf was so in love with her and she leaves me. hits different when you gave your all

SelfDecoded | heal with me :

pouring your heart out when someone leaves isn’t obsession, it’s your nervous system trying to finish something that got cut off mid process. it wasn’t designed to just stop loving someone on command, it needs closure, and when that’s denied, it looks for any way to express what it never got to say. that’s not crazy, that’s just an unfinished nervous system response looking for an exit. this is the kind of thing i post about daily 🤍

Pams💋 :

I hate love 💔

sept :

Thats why i decided to stop hoping he would come back. He literally wouldn’t gaf to even look at me again

ma.rhea :

been there,Thank God for healing

Sabee🫦 :

Very risky repost🫩✌imma leave this

Damien s :

currently me... ive done so much fighting for the mariage and it hurts so much