@b.fly007: One of the hardest things about being cheated on is that people often expect you to heal once the relationship is over. They think the pain ends when the person leaves. What they don't see are the silent battles that continue long after. They don't see how betrayal changes the way you look at yourself. How it makes you question your worth, your judgment, and even your ability to trust your own instincts. You start wondering if you missed the signs, if you were too trusting, or if loving someone deeply was a mistake. The truth is, most people who have been cheated on aren't just grieving a person. They're grieving the version of themselves that existed before the betrayal. The version that believed promises. The version that loved without hesitation. The version that didn't have to overthink every little thing. What hurts the most is knowing that the person who was supposed to protect your heart became the reason it broke. And because of that, even when someone good comes along, part of you remains cautious. Not because you want to live in fear, but because you've learned how painful it is to trust the wrong person. For a long time, I thought healing meant becoming the person I was before. But I've learned that healing isn't about going back. It's about moving forward. It's about learning to trust yourself again, rediscovering your worth, and realizing that someone else's actions do not determine your value. The betrayal may have changed you, but it doesn't have to take away your ability to love, hope, or be happy again. Some wounds don't heal because time passes. They heal because you finally stop blaming yourself for what someone else chose to do. ❤️‍🩹

-MamaOfTwoZ🫶🏻- :

ung kailangan mo ngumiti at mag panggap na maayos kana dahil may mga batang ang nais ay buong pamilya.. 🥺🥺 mga gabing nagigising kana lang at uumiyak sa awa sa sarili mo kc hindi mo pwede piliin ang sarili mo.. hindi ka pwede mag pakitang nasasaktan ka dahil may mga batang maapektuhan sa mga desisyon mo., iniisip mo na lang na naway hindi maulit ang lahat., na tama na nag bigay ka chance.,🥺🥺

Rose🥀🥀 :

binigyan ko sya ng pangalawang pagkakataon, kita ko namn ung pag bawi nya to win me back.. alm ko ginagawa nya lhat pra maging ok ulit ang lhat.. pro bakit ganun, ako ang asawa pro pkiramdam ko nkikipag kumpitensya ako sa alala nya sa asawa ko..

🦋ᴍᴀʀɪᴘᴏꜱᴀ🦋 :

Still dealing with all these toxic traits of mine that I never created. 😢😭 Sometimes iniiyak ko nlang sa tago kasi ayoko na makarinig na nag iinarte or nag ddrama lang ako where infact I'm just scared of experiencing the same shit happened before. Nakakatakot and at the same time nakakapagod. But I allow God this time to guide me in everything I do, in every decisions I make, and protect me from possible harm from people who tries to hurt me. 🥺

blue angel💙🦋 :

self love and know your worth ang pinaka the best..hugs to all the person just like me feels the same pain..let God heal us all..and making ourselves whole again..🥰🫡🤟🏻💪🏻

𝐋𝐮𝐧𝐚 :

The broken pieces na nakikita mo sa bawat pagtingin mo sa salamin.

Micah M Lopez :

Kaya self love muna 🥰 Life is hard gyud kaayo ,pero hinay.x makaya ra gihapon 🤗. Lisod mu engage balik nga dili paka ready, magbalik.x ra ang trauma. Kaya love yourself first! 👌💪

Clyde :

halos ikabaliw mo na sa araw2 pro eto aq mtibay dahil sa pag da2sal pina sa diyos ko nlng ang ndi ko kyang sabhin sa ibang tao

jeàñy :

LAHAT TO NARARAMDAMAN AT NARARANASAN QOU NGAYON😭😭😭😭

𝓁𝒽𝓎𝓃♡♥︎ :

Lisura btaw 😭😭😭

Hannitah 🐞🇵🇭 :

Lahat true but number 6. Hindi nako takot mapalitan basta alam ko is pag ayaw na sakin kahit masakit di ako mag hahabol. LET GO, ACCEPT, MOVE ON ❤️

️ :

being cheated is the hardest part ,it traumatized you that leads to not to trust anyone even they give you genuinely love ...Bec in your mind too much "what if ",.. and because of that they think you're toxic in relationship for some who don't understand where you're feelings came from .. but honestly we just need a partner who can understand us ,who can stand for us no matter how "toxic " we are but it's not toxicity it's just we are scared to feel that pain again that's why we guarded and protect ourself ... lucky if we have that kind of partner who can say " don't worry no matter what I'm still here for you ,and I will not leave you" ...

Mary 💝 :

These weight can possibly be carried up to next relationships. It is not easy to heal. 😥😔💔

🙋🏻‍♀️ Capricorn Momma 🧿🧿 :

This is me since 2005 😔 ...

Donnah :

I experience this still healing my self🙏🙏

CLUOWEY🐱 :

Very me😭😭😭

Aisha :

I know how painful😔

Mommy DIY :

This is the reason why you should never enter into another relationship immediately after break-up... healing and redeeming self takes time and it should never be at the expense of your new partner.

Miss-Ghie09 :

Not again

roxanpearl.44 :

ganyan rin naramdam ko trauma until now 8 don't trust to having relationship

BAD BITCH :

KAILAN KAYA MATATAPOS ANG SAKIT NA NARARDAMAN KO??💔💔 tanong na nd ko alam ang sagot😭💔💔

☆ Miss Yhanzkie 🇵🇭 🇦🇺 💚 :

I know the feeling. Right now happy na.

Břöķèñ_śöùł :

💔😭 sitwasyon ko ngaun grabi ung trauma

hannah :

masakit to at totoong nakakabaliw kasi napakarami mong tanong na kht ikw s sarili mo alam mong dimo masagot ang BKIT? 🥺

Zetian :

林嗯 （lyn) 💞 :

Permission to repost thankyou 🥰