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This is so well written on his part! He sounds very self aware.
2026-06-18 06:51:09
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wedontknoweachother :
"I feel I have already chosen her" I don't think it's fair to claim that while not being ready to propose tbh
2026-06-18 07:21:07
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kate :
i hate to side with a man, but if this was reversed the man would be getting shredded. As a woman, i want exclusively when i’m persuing someone romantically, even if it’s fairly casual
2026-06-18 16:25:11
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Bella :
an important piece of information wasn't provided, how long have they been dating? if its less than 2-3 months im on her side
2026-06-18 07:42:09
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Liz :
how long have they been seeing each other? that is SUPER important
2026-06-18 12:40:58
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Him :
She's trying to see if there are better options.
2026-06-18 14:30:44
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prettypleasedd :
He doesn't want any engagement or commitment on his part, not even a label, but wants exclusivity from hers? Fear of commitment/disappointment on both sides it seems.
2026-06-18 14:09:20
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Scott Rising :
i didn’t realize it was controversial to want exclusivity well before putting a ring on it. sounds like she’s getting in her own way and this is why she’s never been in a relationship
2026-06-18 07:55:53
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Forgetmylogin :
The internet will call her names but given her inexperience this seems reasonable. He also sounds immature or at least inexperienced too. Perhaps a good match
2026-06-18 06:53:57
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Faye :
For the first time im hearing about a man being in a situationship 😭
2026-06-18 10:29:36
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Momof2minions :
Nothing wrong with what each person wants. She’s being very honest and communicating what she wants and doesn’t want so it’s not like she is misleading him. It’s up to him to decide if he’s willing to take it at her pace or not. Not everyone is going to be in the same place we are at the same time. That’s life.
2026-06-18 16:16:26
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Ruth Stetler ❌ :
To me exclusivity is a middle step, you get to know somebody enough to decide that you'd like to dig deeper and focus on seeing what develops in that relationship. That's still a long ways off of marriage. To me, being exclusive says I enjoy our dynamic and want to build something more with that person so there's no reason to play the field and keep my options open.
2026-06-18 15:13:30
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Cécile :
Fear of commitment is fear of rejection. It sounds like she’s afraid of putting all of her eggs in one basket and then the basket dumping her.
2026-06-18 11:30:20
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sai_lou1 :
She doesn’t like him
2026-06-22 14:01:58
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nonintendo3 :
She sounds like an avoidant red flag.
2026-06-18 08:44:44
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Natural Born Trouble :
Thank you ChatGPT … literally reading a response from an LLM
2026-06-18 22:10:02
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yan yun :
She’s… ***emotionally unavailable*** bro should run. Find someone who IS available
2026-06-19 18:22:32
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daylight :
sounds like hes nervous shes can find better ! if you dont want to commit why be exclusive?
2026-06-18 12:09:54
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Monalina :
Smartest truth I’ve ever been told in regards to this situation is: the right person can still be the wrong person if the timing isn’t right.
2026-06-18 16:34:11
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Lord Adnan :
RUNNNNN BETCHHHHH
2026-06-18 16:24:24
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jssinge :
He probably should give her a few weeks to consider what she wants and then give her space if she cant decide. Part of investing in a relationship is sacrifice. But i also understand how having other options can relieve anxiety but its not a long term approach it has to stop sooner or later
2026-06-18 07:45:31
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junaidaslam :
She’s unable to make decisions and sounds like a project. Walk away.
2026-06-18 06:44:01
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Lovelyrj619 :
Sounds wordy for him saying he wants her to commit without him committing fully
2026-06-18 09:01:15
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Steve Balboni :
She’s looking for a better option, if he has self respect he should stop talking to her. Or if she has commitment issues, he can’t fix that so it’s worth it to stop talking to her
2026-06-18 11:50:25
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jennifer_I_love_math :
"several dates" could mean anywhere between 3-7 dates. 3 dates is entirely too early, but 7 dates is not unusual to ask for exclusivity. It's also not unusual to date for 3 months before dating exclusively. For me, "several dates" is not enough time for me to know them well enough for a commitment and exclusivity is a commitment.
2026-06-18 18:07:47
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