@ourownmagic: The problem might not be him. It might be the version of you the relationship was built around. This one may sting… Sometimes the problem isn’t the man. Sometimes the relationship was built around a version of you who was always available. Always understanding. Always accommodating. Always carrying the invisible weight. And then one day you wake up and realize: ‘I don’t want to be the glue anymore.’ That doesn’t mean you don’t love him. It means something in you is asking for a more honest way to exist. The old version of you may have kept everything together. But she may be tired. 🔗 in bio #midlife #genx #midliferelationship