@michaeltothemax: Limerence is one of the most misunderstood experiences after a breakup. Many people think they’re in love when they’re actually attached to a fantasy. Limerence doesn’t change who the other person is. It changes how you see them. You focus on their potential, minimize their flaws, explain away red flags, and become emotionally dependent on the hope that things might change. The danger isn’t the obsession itself. The danger is believing the obsession is evidence that they’re “the one.” Intensity is not compatibility. Intensity is not health. Intensity is not destiny. Often, what you’re grieving isn’t just the person. You’re grieving the future you imagined, the validation you wanted, and the life you hoped would happen. Love sees people as they are. Limerence often sees people as we need them to be. If you’re struggling with heartbreak, attachment, limerence, or emotional recovery, follow for more insights and listen to The Climb Higher Podcast. Remember, the higher you climb, the better the view. #Limerence #BreakupRecovery #AttachmentTheory #HeartbreakHealing #RelationshipAdvice

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