natalie louise
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Thursday 18 June 2026 15:53:47 GMT
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E :
Few questions tho… 1)why do they mention future plans then? 2) are we (anxious ppl) asking for too much to want to be around our partners and talking about our feelings etc? Is that a fault on our part?
2026-06-19 20:51:33
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philip Cyr :
I didn’t need my avoidant to parent me. I needed my avoidance to be human with me. I was secure attached until someone woke up in the morning and fled after eight years that was not my doing that was theirs.
2026-06-18 22:20:30
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🩷 :
Please give us examples of thoose avoidant breackup texts!!!
2026-06-22 13:06:14
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NotThatDeepTho 😭 :
It still doesn’t make any sense at all like why u responsible for my happiness?? Smh
2026-06-18 21:28:57
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tonyrizo445 :
She broke up with me twice and the second time I said never again. I had a feeling that she might eventually come back and I told her I never wanted to see her again I haven’t seen her since. I refuse to get hurt again.
2026-06-18 21:05:10
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erinfay :
This is exactly holy shit
2026-06-18 18:48:03
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Chemethstry :
not even 5 seconds into this video and I'm done, thank you for the extra anger/energy for the gym- sincerely, a twice discarded anxious
2026-06-19 21:12:11
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🪝orey ⸆⸉ :
For the anxious attachments, me included, you also have a life outside of the relationship. Live your own life simultaneously with the relationship and you will always have yourself to back on to
2026-06-21 10:29:10
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Josh :
Gosh, Natalie. Every single word did this is spot on for mine and her relationship. The entire length of it. Many years. I wish she could just see this. Thanks for continuing to make content. 🫶
2026-06-18 16:09:17
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agponceee :
So why all that and then rebound?
2026-06-18 21:20:38
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
You’re describing somebody that is extremely anxiously attached, that needs constant daily reassurance and needs the other person there at all times just to survive. Not avoiding people are with somebody like that. The best thing a person could do for themselves is to not fall in love with un avoidant person, the problem is you won’t find out until it’s too late. They will treat you like you’re too much and say the same type of stuff as in this video even if you are nowhere near the type of person that needs constant reassurance. They want it to be normal for them to be able to just pull away without saying a word and to do it all the time, and to have it not affect you at all, but the problem is they are going to do it until it actually does affect you, even if that takes months, and then that’s when they get to say “I can’t be responsible for your happiness, or don’t put your doubt on me“. Dating my ex made me never wanna date ever again, truly. I’ve been single for six years and I’ll go another six. I’m happy with just me, my dog and horse, or at least satisfied 👍. It’s just not worth it anymore
2026-06-21 18:33:05
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Drippy Taco😏💙🌮🥒🥰💜🧻🐢 :
This video describes everything that I’m going through right now it hit me hard 🥹
2026-06-18 16:44:02
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Pipo :
Thank you for all your videos !! They’re helping me so much
2026-06-18 19:10:08
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Josh Saleh :
Never again
2026-06-18 23:07:39
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shaaz :
Omg you're literally spot on! Not trying to flex my avoidant attachment cause it honestly sucks. But you nailed it by putting exactly how I feel into words.
2026-06-19 11:17:39
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kayla_mon🏳️⚧️💚 :
thennn myy goddd break my heart in the future the now is alr so difficult
2026-06-22 13:41:46
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Tyrese79200 :
ngl happend to a week ago she gave up coz it wass to much
2026-06-22 18:20:02
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Angie 🌈 :
She was married for 16 years. We were together for 8 months and moved out while I was at work. We are No Contact right now.
2026-06-18 17:50:06
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🫧Soft🌻✨L♥️ve✨🦋 :
My avoidant made me avoidant and I didn’t like it. So it made me go work on my anxious attachment. Now I’m secure where the space doesn’t bother me as much but I do have an anxious lean. Progress is progress.
2026-06-20 13:05:54
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tai :
she did leave
2026-06-18 20:56:30
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Music_is_key11 :
He broke my heart so much.
2026-06-21 10:33:23
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˙ᵕ˙ :
You worded it perfectly
2026-06-20 02:10:13
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Wynnie :
I am independent but i like a call without chasing
2026-06-18 18:37:49
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Really, it's me 🇨🇦 :
thanks for the chuckle
2026-06-18 20:46:34
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