@dobetterjonathan: One of the top reasons for couples arguing is household labor, and I found we kept arguing because I’d say I’d do something and I meant to, I had good intentions, but she’d always get to it first. So I’ve been focusing on if I say I’ll do it, I follow through and this simple change has made it so we don’t argue! #dobetter #mentalload #cleaningmotivation #tidyhome #cleaning