@relationalalchemy: Attraction often disappears when your body realizes your voice doesn’t exist in the relationship. You stop asking for what you need. You stop bringing disappointments. You stop risking honesty. And eventually your nervous system stops investing energy into a future it doesn’t believe is safe. People call it “losing attraction.” Sometimes it’s actually self-abandonment catching up. #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #relationshipadvice #somatichealin
How do we, the open ones offering and seeking depth & growth, actually filter for someone closed off like this before getting attached? I keep thinking I have done enough work to discern and not get close to someone who is closed off, but if they think they’re open and present to me that way…how can I even know if they are masquerading? Is this maybe something you could speak on in a future video?
2026-06-18 20:12:01
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Mouse :
I tried. After 13 years and suggested therapy or some guidance but was told that was a “silver bullet” and wouldn’t change how he felt
2026-08-16 08:12:42
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KimberleKyler :
Always helpful 🦋
2026-06-21 21:15:28
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Pen & Theo 🇦🇺🦘🐨🖤💛❤️ :
This was 100% what happened to me. And when I tried to share this, my ex would just get angry and turn it around on me. I left her 2 months ago
2026-07-02 14:03:43
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the forest gardener :
👀 Beautifully said
2026-06-19 00:36:52
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Kelsey Allyn :
So true 💯
2026-07-15 19:45:30
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fromcasablanca :
not easy to process or implement but so real✌️✌️
2026-06-18 21:16:32
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♈️ EE :
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2026-06-20 12:21:08
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