The real problem isn't turning off the people pleasing, it's finding a person worth turning it off for. Like maybe once a month do I have an interaction that i think it might be worth it to let a little bit of the real me drip into. And it's usually a mistake, so it's back to being a shadow
2026-06-21 10:38:26
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Sandra❤ :
Oh shi am i a people pleaser
2026-06-18 22:09:07
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nurazianie :
its not pleasing its being ..out going..
2026-06-19 04:46:07
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Summer/Abundant Fields Realty :
It's scary being vulnerable
2026-06-21 02:28:01
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:
i am a selective people pleaser 🥲
2026-06-19 21:12:19
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Jamie :
how do i stop doing it 😭
2026-06-23 10:34:19
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Specks and Shadow Ninja Emo 🐰 :
the basis of motivational interviewing techniques 😁
2026-06-19 00:31:30
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Slugsii :
julien pls come to the UK I need you
2026-07-23 22:07:21
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N1GHTMAR3GH05T :
But I don't like myself—how can I be myself when others wouldn't like me either?
2026-06-21 23:15:50
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DdogTheDillhole :
I mean I’ll agree that I love the movie IF I do, but then I’ll reply with my favorite movies that bad?
2026-06-20 22:01:57
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r :
its called socializing lol
2026-06-19 17:43:22
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Brianna Coaxam :
OMG Julien! Those shoes 😍😍😍
2026-06-19 09:19:52
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kappa._.97 :
True 💯
2026-06-18 21:29:31
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goddess 🇵🇹🇺🇸 :
love you, Julien🫶🏽
2026-06-18 23:41:29
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robtflims :
when people respond with practically the same thing I just said in an effort to have a conversation it's so annoying a lot of the time
2026-06-22 21:02:48
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Numa :
Me 😭
2026-06-21 20:42:18
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nurazianie :
so whats it like.*the band
2026-06-19 07:22:25
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Hex ♡ fictional men :
I am terrified of people being angry with me/getting offended so I usually agree with what people say
2026-08-16 01:33:45
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CustomCreation :
Spiderman: BND sucks
2026-08-16 20:54:26
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nurazianie :
who r these pple.
2026-08-09 19:57:42
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c :
I have friends like that, it’s like they don’t have their own opinion. And that doesn’t please me ;))
2026-08-09 18:51:06
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Bella :
I hate being a people pleaser, cant stop
2026-08-06 16:31:05
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♚ʍσση.ɓαδɡεɾ♚ :
I've never been a people pleaser and the friendship I have lost it was probably just from being blatantly honest like I feel like I'm honest and respectful but I could work on how I say things but I'm not going to be the friend that agrees with you on everything and I feel like when people notice that they go. and It hurts because I'm also very loyal and care a lot about others and listen but I don't usually get the same attitude back
2026-08-09 20:09:01
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NICOLE FAYE WALKER :
Ahhh this got a follow from me
2026-06-30 02:06:38
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