@themoderndreamgirl: You didn’t love him as is and he resents you for that. Dump men at the first red flag. Don’t waste your time and energy🌸 click the link in my bio for a relationship reality guide🌸 #themoderndreamgirl #women #adviceforwomen #men #relationships
"you're always criticizing me!"
meanwhile, I asked him not to yell at me
2026-06-19 13:56:24
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deadinside :
So so real, it’s ridiculous
2026-07-15 20:59:42
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🌺 𝒜𝒹𝓇𝒾𝒶𝓃 🌺 :
He said I expected him to be perfect. No. I just wanted him to want himself to be the best version possible
2026-06-19 08:58:30
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Blkgirlsthrift :
Yes!! He has NOBODY in his life holding him accountable.
2026-07-15 20:37:16
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Allie O :
"You're always complaining, you're a bitch". I asked him to stop talking to other women on our dates. Meanwhile, he refuses to go out without me anywhere and without me to his giant work parties (he does the same thing everytime).
He isn't warm to me at home, but always wants to hold my hand in public.
2026-07-15 18:10:03
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peggiejoyce :
You’renot the problem. You’re the mirror. And some people hate what they see reflected back at them.
2026-06-20 13:44:47
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iareOlivia :
Should i send this to him or?
2026-06-18 21:30:04
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Your VA KimberlyJoy :
And like why stay with someone you hate for decades?!?!
2026-06-19 01:58:19
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Dana Cullinane :
This is so painfully accurate
2026-07-15 12:09:06
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Sunnyshortandsweet :
my husband tells me his fav thing about me is that I challenge him to be better.
do. not. settle.
2026-06-19 22:54:24
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FlowerOfRebirth :
Everyone watching this go listen to Kingmaker by Maisie Peters 😩😩😩😩
2026-06-20 16:48:54
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#elamom :
“The woman he spends the most time with is the woman who is going to see who he truly is.” How old are you? I don’t actually need to know, but I’m 43 and just exited a 20 year relationship and I just wish I had had this insight at your age. Keep going.
2026-06-19 04:13:18
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BIG4head :
its still annoying though because he knew who I was before we were even together! he liked that about me, until he didn't. 😂
2026-06-18 23:12:56
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Squints :
The first accurate thing I’ve heard her say- Take me for who I am or leave me. I’ve been told this by women before and they are words to live by
2026-07-14 20:18:51
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Randi :
you’re not the problem. You’re the mirror.
2026-06-21 19:52:37
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duhskull :
Genuinely can't believe ts happened to me
2026-06-18 22:44:25
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SickofthisSh*t :
Excellent observation!
2026-06-18 22:10:16
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user2544197965754 :
God forbid we all want to grow as people you know?
2026-06-21 19:48:30
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Pauly :
This just developed my frontal lobe
2026-06-19 21:24:41
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kayc5534 :
He didn’t like when I challenged him. He didn’t like it when I stopped. He just didn’t like me.
2026-06-20 00:46:28
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Жанна Русланова :
My therapist suggested that maybe my brain is not used to feeling ease, peace and stillness, so it’s purposefully diving into discomfort, it’s a paradox bc I felt more comfortable in discomfort and rush of thoughts, cause that felt familiar. Told me to read Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson and it changed my reality, big recommendation.
2026-06-19 12:29:54
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Bubbling Hotsauce 🍉 :
But everyone demands I change constantly
2026-06-19 05:33:02
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lucyp537 :
all I ask is that he be nice to me. yes, every day. cause, call me crazy, I thought that was like the basic principal of being in a relationship. yea, apparently, that's waaay too much to ask
2026-06-20 07:04:06
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landingwhitewhales :
As my ex became successful he developed so much shame around me because I knew about all his failures and I carried him through them.
2026-06-19 13:41:47
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