@the_control_code: “We’ve known this for decades.” Cool. You scrolled past a thousand people realizing it for the first time to tell me it’s old news. The comments are the data. You ignored it to defend the paywall. #CoerciveControl #DomesticViolenceAwareness #TheControlCode #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse

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fortunate.fig
Fortunate Fig :
As a therapist who has been working in the field for 20 years, I have learned bits and pieces of what you talk about in your posts here and there over the 20 years, but it’s extremely rare to hear it all in one place. And you’re right – – those few and far between places were at conferences or trainings that the general public would never be at. And I was not taught this information in my masters level courses that I had to take to get my license. I’ve learned it because I am interested in this topic and I pursue the information, and some of it is just my own personal experiences and conversations with survivors. I appreciate your content so much! And I love that I am able to send your posts to clients who are trying to figure things out, but don’t know how to put their experiences into words.
2026-06-20 03:26:31
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mamamaria4133
MamaMaria :
Please keep doing what you are doing!!! It opened my eyes to why I feel, think, and act differently after I got out!! I knew I was not the same and I’m not crazy❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-18 23:47:40
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teresataptt950
teresataptt950 :
If they know everything, why aren't they teaching others? Thank you for your work.
2026-06-19 02:37:29
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rouxmagoo
rouxmagoo :
General public here…we don’t know.🤷‍♀️
2026-06-19 12:27:29
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emandesther
EmandEsther :
Your content is so important. Thank you 🙏🏻
2026-06-24 02:59:04
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keeperofspells..s
keeperofspells..songwriter :
I had no clue as well…. I did not know!!
2026-06-19 14:44:21
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alisonbarkermckinney
Alison :
THIS!! Thank you!! This point is so important, and not just a little detail. Awareness is foundational for the general public. We still have a lot of work to do in the area of Awareness. It has been in journals and books for decades, and that is maddening because the widespread public Awareness is seriously lacking, especially in systems.
2026-06-19 01:12:46
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cailew1
Aile :
Yes! The general public doesn’t know, and your content is vital for us. Also for young girls in high school just starting to date — we should make these details part of the health/sex-ed curriculum
2026-06-20 17:02:56
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kenzie.kline
McKenzie Kline :
Your page is so helpful for me understanding what I went through this isn’t common knowledge to the general public
2026-06-23 20:59:51
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that1arkansasmama
thatArkansasmama :
Hey! I really like you. The way you speak so fast, yet everything comes out clear, well-researched, and natural — no teleprompter in sight — that’s exactly my type. Hell yeah!
2026-06-22 14:34:18
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francescaventioux
Francesca :
We know and have done zero things?
2026-06-20 07:24:27
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daniblumen_
Dani 🌺🧩🪩 :
Thank you. Thank you thank you thank you
2026-06-18 23:57:22
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plauzibldeniability
plauzibldeniability :
I just love your brain!! Seasoned viewer here, it seems as if you’ve shifted from telling your own story, to focusing on cultural impact. I think it’s beautiful and I hope it’s a sign you’re healing and finding a deep sense of purpose in this. You are so nuanced and bring something so refreshing to the conversation
2026-06-19 11:04:40
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user3415327353022
user3415327353022 :
Amazing explanation, thank you
2026-06-19 02:06:04
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taramattie.37
Taramattie 🇨🇦🇬🇾 :
It’s not addressed in legislative language to force accountability with public healthcare service provision for brain health, work accommodations or insurance coverage plans too - the knowledge will always need to circulate - its public health / health promotion staples
2026-06-19 06:44:31
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adventride
Stacey :
Your fabulous!
2026-06-22 05:07:53
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reb.wue
Reb Wue :
you ate them alive sis, great job. your work helps countless women, me included, never stop.
2026-06-20 13:30:18
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richelenadine
Richele Nadine :
Bravo 👏👏 👏👏👏
2026-06-19 03:13:20
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oceans3k
oceans3k :
Keep going .,, share share share …
2026-06-19 03:43:14
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user6207975246216
user6207975246216 :
Thank youuuuuuuuu
2026-06-19 05:24:27
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tobedeleted123455
Isa :
Real
2026-06-24 17:48:19
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mountainhomemamama
Mountain Home Mama :
This is happening in my videos comments 😓
2026-06-20 22:54:12
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saara.k.04
Sara K. :
gender based violence activist for a decade and now a therapist here to say that no "we" don't know. i just left my last abusive relationship like a year ago lol so even if the professionals know it isn't embodied. i think the only people who truly know are the perpetrators because anyone with empathy cannot imagine an abusive mind
2026-06-19 11:47:04
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keeperofspells..s
keeperofspells..songwriter :
Omg this is my life!!! I was actually tested for tetrahydrozoline (visine) poisoning🫣🫣🫣🫣 last week!
2026-06-19 14:43:33
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imagine.ollie
:) :
Nope, I didn’t know. It wasn’t common knowledge to me. Didn’t find out until years later. Wish I would have known sooner, but glad I didn’t have to find out the hard way 😕 Thank you for sharing this content! ❤️
2026-06-24 01:39:16
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