@jessandtommy2: She's not dramatic. She's not "too much". She's going through something real — and the people around her can make all the difference. If you love a woman in perimenopause or menopause, this one's for you. #mom #menopause #womenshealth #family #MentalHealth

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blueeyed1973casper
GB7💜🦋☪️7️⃣7️⃣7️⃣7️⃣ :
In tears…. I Do feel invisible! No one understands! I feel alone! I’m tired!
2026-06-19 20:36:10
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elliemae015
Ellie Mae :
Why does this show up on my feed? It should be showing up on my kids’ 😝 and 😭
2026-06-20 15:27:59
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rlhwashere843
Lowcountryroots843 :
everyone has left my life. I have no one. going thru everything ALONE is heavy as hell. I live alone. phone doesnt ring or ding. no one cares. its a sad life. but I guess it will get better one day
2026-06-24 16:19:56
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deborahshaughnessy23
Deb :
I just recently came across a quote. “She’s not overwhelmed because she can’t handle it, she’s overwhelmed because she handles it. All of it, All the time.” Here we are handling it all. Work, home life, some still have children at home, aging parents to take care of. This post is spot on.
2026-06-20 11:31:25
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jbabyy82
Janette guido :
This has me balling my eyes out under the sheets as I fight my emotions knowing I am about to end a relationship that is destroying what’s left of the girl I used to be . I wish my daughters would understand the pain n confusion I am going through . I feel so lost and confused , I wish I could just turn back time or just run away from it all . I’m hurting and no one in my home realizes what I am going through 🥺
2026-06-21 01:14:46
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mrscruzzi
Sylvia+T1D :
In tears! 😭 I feel so alone and have so much weight on my shoulders. I get no help from anyone and I’m exhausted!
2026-06-23 12:51:32
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therockyanddelilahshow
The Rocky & Delilah show 🐶🐾 :
Wow this put me in tears, if our kids only knew how much we carry as moms they wouldn’t judge us so much.😮‍💨😮‍💨
2026-06-20 04:21:48
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raerae9085
Rae Rae :
I’m going through perimenopause as a single mom, no relationship, working 3 jobs and juggling my daughters sports, realizing I’m never going to look like my 20 year old self ever again and I wasted my best years being married to someone I hated and now I also only have 3 years left before my daughter graduates and moves out
2026-06-25 02:39:33
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lisad_22
༺ 🦋🦋𝐿𝒾𝓈𝒶𝒟_𝟤𝟤 🦋🦋 ༻ :
I really don't know where I am with all this. I'm 57, dealing with grief, dealing with a schizophrenic 24 yr old son, completely overwhelmed. some days I wake up feeling like I'm having a nervous breakdown. I wish I could retire, my job is demanding. All I want to do is sleep. I pull myself together but it's so hard.
2026-06-21 08:59:29
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tori_e73
Tori 🇺🇸 :
Well shit now I’m crying. This is so real. And even though I’m post menopausal at 52 and doing fact feel this way, I can’t help but think of my mom who’s 92 and stuck in a nursing home mourning the life that she can’t have anymore and feeling lost, lonely and scared. Crying for the people that she’s lost. Crying for the people who don’t visit. Crying for the moments that she knows she’ll never live again. This sucks lol now I need to go see her ASAP. Thankfully I see her every day but today I’m gonna go and pick her her favorite drink and open that window and give her a little extra love.
2026-06-23 19:13:56
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thatmamaang
Angela :
This is so real and no one knows what ur going through silently
2026-06-24 00:59:21
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lisasully70
lisasully70 :
Sitting here in tears reading this. This is right where I am right now. Feeling very alone in my thoughts. Keeping my mouth shut so I don't upset my family. Some days are harder than others 😢
2026-06-28 00:36:43
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thedevilherself16
😈The Devil HerSelf😈J :
my 16yo daughter knows me better than I know myself 99% of the time. she reached over and squeezed my hand when we were driving a few weeks ago (I'd been laughing btw) and I had to pull over because I lost it crying. she didn't say a word just kept a hold of my hand and whispered words I've told her "tears are the emotions we can't name. I'm proud of you" and in that moment I got to get a glimpse at my late mum again even for a brief moment
2026-06-24 00:51:45
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gangstercheryll
Cheryll :
I don’t just feel alone… I am alone… and I just have to accept it. I only have myself to rely on. Some days I am so exhausted I don’t eat properly… I know I should, and on good days I do… I will not let this break me, I choose to love myself and to be kind to me on those difficult days 💕
2026-06-25 03:31:04
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life_of_dakini_and_i
Life of Dakini 🪶 :
I’m sobbing here 😭😅❤️We’ve got this 🙏🏻 Sending big hugs to all the wonderful women going through this.
2026-06-21 10:29:31
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munequita_1881
Hermosa :
Everyone forgets that a mom also needs to be taken care of 😌🥺
2026-06-24 15:43:45
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klyf80.2
🦖Not Da Mama🦖 :
What if it’s me but it’s not perimenopause, I’m just tired of being everything for everyone else.
2026-06-23 17:34:51
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nikkid777_
Nikkiiii :
This is so important and people make me feel like I’m crazy
2026-06-22 10:35:51
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rescuemum
KirstybutcallmeK :
Gastro has claimed me as a victim today, already feeling so alone 🥺🥺 I needed to hear this. I've sent it to my eldest son who is 20 and my rock already. if no one has told you today Mummas- I SEE YOU ❤️
2026-06-24 02:56:27
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chingona_916
🌹 Reg 916 🌹 :
Never thought I'd be unemployed, living with Cancer, living in perimenopause/menopause, & care taker to an aging parent & special needs sibling. I really want my old life back being healthy, thriving in a corporate job! 😭...Now I'm just poor & winging it! 🙏
2026-06-20 21:03:59
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butterflychristie4
ButterflyChristie Crowe (NIGHT :
IN TEARS.... THIS IS REAL FOR SO MANY OF US OUT HERE🙏💙💜
2026-06-21 17:28:38
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lucasnelson218
Lukas Nelson :
I went through this at 30 years old and I had so much anxiety and crazy in my head that it ruined my marriage and I was just trying to get through the day and everything was just crazy.
2026-06-22 10:48:22
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kimie68777
kimie68777 :
I’m in tears and I don’t talk about it with my kids I guess they see me as over worked and over stressed and cranky sometimes and I cry often when I’m alone but I pray for all of us woman who are still amazing and need to hear that plus I love you all…you’ve got this…we’ve got this 🙏🏽❤️🥺🫶🏽
2026-06-20 23:17:40
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judywilli68
Judy Williams68 :
Ty for this!!! I’m going through this and I feel all alone!!! I can’t understand it myself so how can I explain it to others? I feel invisible and like the only actual attention is when I’m being told I’m overreacting or being emotional or being crazy or mean!😢 I have always put my family number 1, but I feel like no one is there for me!! 😭
2026-06-21 07:37:08
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