@designerbeauty_ut: I know I’m not the only out there carrying more than people see and realize. You are seen. You are loved. And you are doing an amazing job! #soloparenting #HealingJourney #exhaustedmom #grief #creatorsearchinsights
Stress can be more detrimental to your body and mind then drugs in alcohol.
2026-06-20 14:45:44
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Jversluis83 :
You're not a failure, you're doing a good job. You need to take a few hours to yourself and just breathe. I know it sucks. But if your kids are laughing in life then you're doing a fantastic job.
2026-06-19 06:58:32
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Perry10603 :
Lean on extended family & friends. Give yourself "grace" for not being able to do "everything" for your children. Assign them rotating household chores to help you (pick up their toys, sports equipment, doing dishes, taking out the trash, etc.). Stay strong. Don't be afraid to ask for help.
2026-07-21 17:14:21
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Indyguy :
My heart goes out to u
2026-06-23 01:27:57
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Infinite Watchman :
You are not a failure. You are grieving. Being married means that two people have become one and shared everything together that was good and bad. Now half of you is ripped away and you are being strong like a man would do. It’s ok to not be strong, time is your greatest adversary and healer. When you are stressed and struggling give it all to God. He will give you peace and my prayers for you in this time of your journey. God bless
2026-06-20 16:23:27
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Rodeo Real Estate Agent :
Can I tell you what we see from our side, sis?? You have stepped out of a cocoon and become a beautiful butterfly. Your ability to take on the world has been so wonderful to watch, especially during the loss of the most incredible man that I knew my entire life, and who fathered your children, and blessed your life so beautifully for 20 years. Was that time hard? Yes. Is it still a challenge? Yes. I love you, I see you. Our entire family watches you blossom daily, and seeing your posts have genuinely been so great for all of us. You ARE enough. You always have been. Your children adore you, and for that, we are all so happy!! Thank you for being you, Nicole 🥰
2026-07-06 19:14:47
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andyard768 :
Pray 🙏. Put it in God’s hands
2026-06-23 02:43:50
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azshadowslayer :
Your situation is a tough position to be placed in
A huge change that wasn't part of the plan.
You will persevere and come out the other side. keep your head up and do what you can. It's all that anyone should expect from you.
2026-06-23 06:24:16
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Rick :
Awww. One thing at a time. You are doing great.
2026-06-20 22:53:59
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Searingedge :
Fully trusting in God and letting go of the feeling of failure is hard. The emotion in your voice is heartbreaking. 💔
2026-06-20 03:54:15
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Michaelmxer250 :
never ever think of yourself as a failure God never makes mistakes you are extraordinary woman to take everything on that has come your way!!! there will always be some difficult days but someway we find way to get through them 🙏 you are a wonderful mom and beautiful woman keep the faith and believe things will get better!!! sending big bear 🐻 hugs 🫂 to you. God doesn't want you to struggle he has your life already written 🙏 keep believing 🙏 and hold onto your faith 🙏
2026-06-22 21:02:12
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Phil :
Wow. Tender for you. It sounds like your kids joy is the best barometer. You’re a hero being there for them. Life can’t look Ike it did with twice as many hands to help. Find peace in the most important wins. Sometimes nothing else matters. 🙏🏻❤️
2026-06-22 03:43:27
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allenstewart43 :
yes I did too but I raised 2 children worked 70 hour weeks not much sleep but I did it I got them both graduated all you can do is the best that you can and provide a better life for them than I had I had a good role model my mother raised 3 boys on her own just take a minute and just look at your children and really see who they are becoming
2026-06-19 19:23:52
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SideFire :
I really appreciate your story. It means a lot to hear from someone who chose not to jump into another relationship after divorce, but instead focused on healing and putting their kids first. I'm in a very similar place, taking my time, working on myself, and making my children my top priority, even when doing everything on my own is one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Your perspective really resonated with me.
2026-06-22 13:06:57
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Colbi Glow Girl :
I love you. I’m here always if you need to call and vent
2026-06-20 03:00:55
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Jess Roussel :
Love you 🩵
2026-06-19 15:00:37
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krisjohnson1193 :
If you don't mind me asking.
What did your husband pass away from? And how long ago did he pass?
2026-06-20 14:46:53
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⚡🤍CURSED ZEUS🤍⚡ :
I'm happy to see you thriving and love the positivity. Being away from my home town here in Utah is a challenge itself
2026-06-20 23:20:22
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dmorris52 :
People know when you're trying. Kids see that and they feel the love you are giving them in your efforts. That love changes everything. Christ will make the difference.
2026-06-19 13:40:12
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Paul :
prayers. wish I could help
2026-06-19 05:05:34
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🍄 ᛑᛗᛛ 🍄Abbbs🍄 ᛑᛗᛛ 🍄 :
Completely agree.
2026-06-19 07:31:18
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Dan Chapman :
I get that.
2026-06-19 14:42:41
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Hanson :
you have the strength to succeed.
2026-06-19 05:14:48
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Victor. :
Thank you for being vulnerable! Counseling can help with these emotions and processing through this! 🙏 Hope you can talk and continue to push through!
2026-06-19 14:15:25
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