andreee :
When people instantly choose "thot daughter" over "gay son," it usually comes down to hidden homophobia. They view having a gay kid as the ultimate embarrassment, so they’d rather deal with double standards around female sexuality than face their own biases. Choosing "gay son" is the obvious answer if you just want your kid to be happy and live a great life.
There’s also a huge link between a country's wealth and how it treats LGBTQ+ people. When a country is poor, people are focused on basic survival and cling to rigid, traditional rules. When a country gets richer, society opens up and starts prioritizing human rights and individual freedom.
Look at how it splits across the world:
Less Wealthy / Less Accepting: In places like Uganda, Yemen, or Nigeria, life is economically very tough. In these countries, being gay is heavily criminalized, and traditional survival values take priority over social progress.
Wealthier / More Accepting: In wealthy places with high standards of living—like The Netherlands, Norway, or Iceland—same-sex marriage has been legal for years, and acceptance is incredibly high because people have the financial security to focus on human rights.
So yeah, he's totally right. The panic over having a gay child says a lot about someone's deep-rooted biases and the kind of culture they grew up in.
2026-06-20 09:41:35