@sakinahspouse_: A Wife Is Not the Villain for Wanting Her Own Home.

Asmaah🧸💞 :

WHAT ABOUT HER PARENTS?

Viviènne :

200 rejections 😭

Creativity :

He needs to arrange for carers, its not a daughter in laws obligation, and need to understand be considerate that the spouse may already be under pressure to look after her own potential family

Omar Razaq :

sounds like he's the one in the wrong tbf

Esra :

i tought i was on the wrong side of tiktok 😳😂

Bubblegumhijab :

I respectfully disagree with the advice that has been given. Based on the circumstances described, he is 42 years old and currently living in a two-bedroom house with both of his parents and his disabled sister. It appears that someone is having to sleep in the living room, which means the family does not even have a proper communal space. Given these challenges, I think it is reasonable to question whether marriage should be the immediate priority. If he were to have children in the future, there would also need to be consideration of where they would live and whether the current arrangement could adequately accommodate a growing family. In my view, his focus at this stage may be better directed towards supporting and caring for the family members who currently depend on him, particularly his parents and disabled sister. Serving and looking after one’s family is a noble responsibility, and if undertaken sincerely, the reward for that sacrifice is with Allah.

jennioaks :

You can’t be serious 😂

t :

in what world is a 2 bed big enough?

Archie :

This goes for parents on both sides.

Jamila🇦🇫🇮🇪 :

I mean you can still visit your parents you don’t need to live with them that’s why you need to have the discussion before you marry

Carla Riley :

I'm sorry. Did she marry the parents too? How are his parents her responsibility? He should arrange appropriate care for them.

annmarys :

Was about to write a whole paragraph 😂

m._.zxmoh :

I mean the way I’ve been raised to think about this question is: How would you want your future children to treat you when you’re older? I would ideally want my children to experience living with my parents and see the struggles we go through in taking care of them because I want my children to take care of me and my spouse when we are both elderly and not be sent to a care home respectfully. I didn’t work hard to provide for them, to just disregard us completely. It’s just the way of life. She won’t be a slave for my parents, so please stop spreading hate. I hope I can find a spouse, In sha’ Allah who shares a similar vision.

s421233 :

I thought I was in the wrong side of tiktok

loca-b :

don't worry bro I m taking care of MY parents well

هناء || Hana :

Not leaving my parents either.

s :

thought we were gonna agree with you 🤣

lexia :

that's not evil....

Sham sham 😼 :