Healthy relationships will trigger you the most when you’ve been your whole life in survival mode.
2026-06-22 17:19:49
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ransom_d88 :
same 🥺 no one talks about how being in your first healthy relationship makes you feel. It’s a battle….
2026-06-22 13:32:22
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Ranveigh :
SAME🫣
2026-06-24 00:57:01
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Ang 🖤🕯️ :
I also have to remind myself that I’m human and if he gets tired of me then it’s just not meant to be.
2026-06-22 14:25:51
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Morgan Shattuck :
when I'm feeling like this, I try to switch my mindset from fear based thinking like "he'll get tired of me" to something like "He deserves my best self". it helps me not feel extra anxious when I'm having a hard time regulating my emotions and in turn, motivates me to use my healthy coping mechanisms even when it feels like it's not gonna work. We don't realize that fear based thinking slowly erodes the trust we have in our relationship, that insecurity always manifests one way or another. rebuilding the relationship with yourself is the best way to actually enjoy your relationship and sustain it long term. I learned this in therapy and it's really changed how I operate in my relationship. now I can take accountability for my actions when disregulated without beating myself up or needing a ton of reassurance. it takes a lot of practice, like years of it, but it's worth it and does become more natural. we are humans with trauma and we deserve compassion, especially from ourselves.
2026-06-23 14:01:47
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Taylor🫶🏻🌻 :
Same, I overthink every little thing 😭
2026-06-22 10:12:10
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melaniehouse1 :
My problems is self sabotage😭
2026-06-22 19:14:19
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Manifestor :
he can get tired of me im not shrinking myself or not speaking up on things that bother me, the right man will empathize and listen.
2026-06-22 21:27:52
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michaelamoney123 :
This but mine is the right one bc he never gets tired. Endlessly patient while i heal
2026-06-22 03:49:33
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Katia Leon556 :
Currently me right now .This is the healthiest relationship I’ve been in and I get triggered for everything idk why
2026-06-23 03:30:27
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🖤𝓑𝓻𝓸𝓴𝓮𝓷𝓚𝓪𝔂🖤 :
For the last 3 months 😭 I can’t stop it either
2026-06-22 01:32:56
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NikkiS :
I feel so seen rn
2026-06-22 01:43:37
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Amanda :
girl it's so tough. his patience and understanding make it even harder somehow 😭
2026-06-23 01:26:48
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Mimi🌸 :
I’m just realllyyyyy scared to lose him and ik he is slowly losing feelings for me
2026-06-22 18:55:40
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cristinaktg :
It’s a constant struggle for me. So many toxic relationships that I’m freaking out over little things
2026-06-22 11:41:13
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MemTenn816 :
At first glance, Your face card gives Marilyn Monroe 🤍
2026-06-22 00:59:41
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Lexieloo :
I be gaslighting myself saying I’m missing something that he could be doing wrong because I’m used to it. In reality, he more than likely ain’t even doing anything wrong😭
2026-06-23 15:47:30
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Yurmom :
It’s called growing and changing nothing wrong with it just gotta get through it
2026-06-22 12:02:40
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Ti :
Me all week. Sucks.
2026-06-21 23:47:27
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daliadelgado243 :
me going through it at this moment 😔 trying to be better
2026-06-22 04:02:05
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_marisol_1 :
literally dealing with the same thing. but this time, I can feel god telling me this isnt the one..
2026-06-22 02:40:35
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LV :
Ok I’m not the only one.
2026-06-22 15:44:30
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jlynnt91491 :
Immensely relatable right now
2026-06-22 13:57:21
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Snapple123 :
He’s also in the healthiest relationship ever and we both get triggered. Both have to remind ourselves and each other not to be difficult
2026-06-22 09:25:25
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Kendra :
I am soooo thankful for the patience’s this man has shown me 🥹🩷
2026-06-23 01:04:15
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