@kylejohnson9191: You’re avoiding X is going to take five steps while going through the breakup and during the no contact phase The very first step is the relief stage and pressure relief The second step is distraction. During this, they’re gonna do everything they can to distract themselves from actually. Feeling the feelings they’re supposed to. The third step is curiosity beginning to step in The fourth step is nostalgia starts to rewrite the story And the fifth step is, they feel the loss when they sense that you’re not waiting anymore. This stage matters the most. #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #avoidant
He didn't want to be alone. He wanted a different brand of dopamine from someone else.
2026-06-21 13:11:46
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Jill :
Are men usually avoidants? It seems like it.
2026-08-07 08:09:05
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😁🙈 :
Move on they will do that again and again
2026-06-21 00:59:34
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.WLD :
Never seen a avoidant solving anything.
2026-07-25 14:59:48
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🌴Planeta Savanetta🌴 :
Just run because this ain’t good for your nervous system 🫶🏼
2026-06-21 11:16:42
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Rockland :
They just go back to their ex. End of story
2026-06-20 16:46:40
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Hayley Bradbury :
My ex has gone everywhere in the globe except therapy 😂😂😂😂😂😂
2026-07-30 21:14:04
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Stephen Cordina :
alone? incorrect. they go straight onto their next host. the host theyre going to exploit next is already lined up. there is no period of being alone or introspection. worst than narcissists
2026-07-27 06:32:12
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ᛑᛗᛛ.Brittany.ᛑᛗᛛ :
guys... just start a garden, you'll forget all about it
2026-06-25 06:00:34
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axvasili :
or they just continue building their relationship with the rebound……
2026-06-20 23:46:36
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KTP :
i literally told mine its like he has 2 personalities.
2026-07-08 19:46:58
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SiLLY 🦋 실리 :
If you don't speak to me for +24 hours you can stay where you are - without me. Not dealing with this cause I'm also just human and I simply refuse to always be the understanding one.
2026-06-22 07:17:12
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Lana :
You know I’m getting tired of people glowing up and avoidants getting rewarded with an upgraded model for their bad behavior when they come back.
2026-07-31 02:47:48
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7tmartini :
This is so exhausting
2026-06-21 17:27:55
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Penny :
Avoidants, turn us into avoidants. Never again.
2026-08-04 03:02:40
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Dex :
If you encounter an avoidant just move on asap unless they are begging for help and acknowledge they are avoidant.
2026-08-01 20:28:09
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Queen Lisa 301 :
It definitely seems like a border personality disorder
2026-08-01 18:42:48
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LienePetersone :
This is such extreem violance to the brain…
2026-08-01 21:13:47
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Foggy X Music :
Why in the world … no. Just move on. Find a partner who treats you well. Let them fix themselves while you heal yourself and go find a good partner.
2026-06-21 07:18:36
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JustTravelingThrough :
or he's just not that interested
2026-08-09 22:52:28
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LucyMummyLucy :
Why are they so charming with other people?
2026-08-08 03:11:29
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Hotbutteredfucksticks :
Man. I’m glad he removed himself. I need and deserve so much more
2026-06-21 16:15:33
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Kylie ☮️♓️ :
He messages me every single day, good morning and goodnight, nothing else, it’s insane and I’m going mad 😭
2026-06-21 18:52:36
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DannyB :
But what if they are filling that emotional void with other people that were pulling them away in the first place?
2026-06-20 14:15:52
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Lone :
Ok. So did you have a side piece during this time of no contact with the person you were with? Because mine does, so id assume they dont give a damn of no contact with me because they are being fulfilled by someone else. So they dont have a chance to miss me
2026-07-19 22:23:19
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