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abbyrobbo86 :
Even your cutting board is lowkey avoidant 😅
2026-06-20 16:07:51
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mooninjune8 :
I’m secure and took this approach with my avoidant partner. After ~9 months he still got overwhelmed and ran. I hope he finds healing as you have.
2026-06-20 17:37:49
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meacul :
I really like the format of this video. You’re being so super 100% genuine and it shows. There’s something very hopeful in that.
2026-06-19 21:25:49
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Photographers_Journey :
There is no such thing as a former avoidant without therapy to figure out what created the attachment issue. Just my opinion.
2026-08-09 05:58:04
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Hrchgchb :
Put a damp paper towel beneath the cutting board to stop it slipping around x
2026-06-20 21:31:02
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Helena Arden :
It’s just not worth it. Imagine having to baby an adult human being into regulating their emotions and still it may backfire
2026-07-16 00:00:01
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Right-Brained Birdy 🐦 :
This is why I can't do relationships with anxious attachment, because it feels like their happiness IS contingent on me and it's too much pressure. I know my avoidant triggers (stress), and I've done the work enough that I could do fine with a secure man if I can just communicate I need this, this, and this to keep my stress levels down and he responds and does it. But everyone is so anxious and broken these days, it's very hard to find.
2026-07-31 12:37:49
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MeAsMe :
he wanted to leave me and i told him 'everything i had i made for myself and i was fine before ill be fine again' he then changed his mind and wanted to stay ? like this is the same right
2026-07-24 10:40:41
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madeleine :
But can i ask why? As an anxious, it’s still hard for me to understand why avoidants get into a rs just to get out of it before it gets too serious.
2026-06-20 14:39:17
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Sophie May Collects :
I think this is great, you're right, you are not responsible for her happiness. However, you should still be aware if you are hurting someone else. 🙏🙌
2026-06-20 19:03:49
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Ncalderon62708 :
Clarity
2026-06-20 01:13:35
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Cosmicalea 🇨🇦 :
As a now healing fearful avoidant I used to look for faults or fault find the littlest things & fixate on those. This pattern made me fixate on why i didn’t want to be with that person. Now I can see that was a toxic pattern and see it for what it was.
2026-06-20 15:25:37
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orzeszek_pistacjowy :
So she reassured you about a fallacy, as you just admitted. She said her responsibility is not her responsibility, even tho it is.
2026-06-20 05:56:08
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FlyFreeFlyHigh :
Well said!
2026-06-20 09:59:16
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Josie Israel :
I told mine last week’ I was happy before I met you , I purpose to be happy even who you are gone ‘ why I said this , he broke up with me because I went silent on him for a week 😁
2026-06-21 21:35:11
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Kayla :
I used to be anxious and have healed alot on my own got into a good relationship and its crazy how the brain struggles often with looking for reasons it won't work. luckily I have healed enough to recognize not to follow those thoughts
2026-06-20 18:29:09
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This is me trying-T.S :
Post It- I will be ok if we break up. I will be sad, and it will take me time to recover but I’ll get back up.
2026-06-28 06:14:28
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Silvia Cortes :
What if my happiness is not his responsibility and I am aware of this, but when I talk about the future I am met with “let’s live in the present” “I don’t see myself living with someone” “I am not attached to things of this world” it’s really hard to hear that, specially when I always wanted to build a future with this person.
2026-07-09 04:23:07
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auramoon1 :
thank you this post
2026-08-06 17:27:24
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joel rodriguez :
super true
2026-08-06 17:17:03
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Lion.el :
How do I write that to her over text? Because we are in a distance relationship
2026-07-29 07:18:46
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Oana :
So we broke up and he use to text me every week and we were talk briefly. Last week i saw he was looking for me more than usual. He was a bit flirty too, giving me hints here and there. Until he dropped a message “ i feel closer to you that i havent feel wirh anyone in years and im confused because you know, we had our discussion “ ( he broke up with me saying he is not there anymore) and after this message he is acting weird again. We supposed to go out, he havent mentioned it anymore. He is texting but not as excited as it was before that message. What should i do? I dont chase him as much as before the breakup. I dont text him first anymore. But i feel like he doesnt want to see me and he doesnt miss me. Help😅
2026-07-27 21:24:37
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H :
Thankyou
2026-06-20 15:57:04
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