You & Surrounding
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Christynn :
As the anxious one, once I get over it I will literally never look back
2026-06-21 14:19:54
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Sansan :
The avoidant will find someone new to avoid soon enough
2026-06-21 04:29:47
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thai_gl_keepsmealive :
yeah so my ex avoidant tried to cut me off but by saying she loved me and would figure things out with me when she feels better (i believe she didn't know how to break up with me without hurting me, newsflash breakups always hurt, just be honest man) SO she then cut me off for 1 month no contact i obviously panicked the first week, drowned in deep pain and overthinking/depression for the 3 other weeks. Then i ended up reaching out, she accepted to see me again Then we were on and off for about 4-5 months.. until i then found out she was talking to someone else 🙂 then it was a whole journey for me to accept that it was over and to never let myself down again the way i did back then
2026-06-22 11:44:56
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𝑘𝑒𝑛𝑧. :
happy to be the anxious one, I know I'm gonna grow from this. meanwhile he'll never change, but I'm at peace with that.
2026-06-20 20:14:23
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mel :
As someone who’s been both, the anxious is much worse
2026-06-20 23:18:42
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bushdarina :
Therapist here. It’s a childhood wound. At some point in your childhood you felt emotionally abandoned so when you didn’t receive. You have to heal the root cause of it internally by rewiring your core beliefs. Highly recommend reading Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson, it's a wonderful book.
2026-06-22 01:40:43
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سينديي💋 :
As an avoidant, I literally don’t care
2026-06-22 08:35:24
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chamilomi :
i am avoidant and this is so true
2026-06-22 09:36:17
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️zac :
as the anxious person, the first few months of no contact are so so difficult, but after some time you get over it completely
2026-06-22 02:33:47
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NaughtyNoodleQueen :
2 months have felt like 2 years….
2026-06-22 07:50:57
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peanuts :
I’ve been on both and anxious is 10x worse
2026-06-22 11:38:29
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annaer :
whatevee
2026-06-22 11:24:35
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🐢 :
as an avoidant, anxious is much much worse, my poor babies.
2026-06-22 11:35:51
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Christian McCharles :
I needed to see this
2026-06-22 11:36:27
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A :
tf are we using ai for
2026-06-22 09:38:48
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GabFab :
W t f is this animation
2026-06-21 09:34:22
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🍮 :
the ai animation is makinh this so much harder to watch omfg
2026-06-22 04:59:25
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Sabrina Roy :
Being anxious made me not sleep for hours
2026-06-22 10:21:13
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Sonia :
As an anxious person, I eventually forget the person 🥴
2026-06-21 03:44:33
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Sarah :
No i actually don’t think he cares at all
2026-06-22 03:20:04
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Saphire Kin ४ :
As the anxious one I surrounded myself with my friends after I fell into that emotional hole. I started feeling better and focusing on myself. He later would start calling me again and then asked to get back together when I was finally okay.
2026-06-22 07:29:43
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