@drsarahhensley: People who stay stuck in unhealthy relationships are usually focused on one thing: “How do I get my partner to change?” But people who actually heal start asking a different question: “What is going on with me that I’m tolerating this?” That’s where real relationship change starts. Not with controlling them. With understanding you. What’s harder for you… accepting who they are, or asking yourself why you keep tolerating it? #drsarahhensley #relationshippatterns #selfawareness #attachmentstyles #partnerfocused #emotionallyunavailable #HealingJourney

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FireAndTyce :

The assumption is still based on “their bad behavior”… that’s seems problematic.

2026-06-20 22:18:23

jc_gray07 :

yup it's always on you. it's your life. even if it means walking away with your head up high

2026-06-19 23:46:30

Megan Neurofeedback Therapist :

We want both

2026-06-24 03:02:15

Toilet.Paper.Guy :

Learned the hard way. 35 years

2026-06-19 23:26:14

becomingsecure :

Where did you get that heart necklace??? 🥰

2026-06-23 16:38:52

user5531012500826 :

The lighting in this video is 🔥

2026-06-20 03:36:25

The Year of Brandi :

That was a huge realization for me.

2026-06-19 22:50:05

Ayaverareyhan :

how many percent actually manages to change the underlying patterns and becomes secure (how long does that take on average) and what motivation do they need for that. how high is their motivation? what does that look like

2026-06-21 03:32:05

ValerieJoyRN :

What about with a cluster B partner ?

2026-06-22 03:20:25

Gatticus :

👍👍👍

2026-06-21 18:39:59

snow(စနိုး) :

The effort she puts in never goes unnoticed..@Kate Pouncey

2026-06-21 12:20:06

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