Sydney Finn
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Saturday 20 June 2026 06:25:55 GMT
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zeleniastina :
you’re so right, everytime you sit in the fire and then realise : oh i didn’t die and he didn’t leave - those are the new experiences that you need to overwrite all the anxious stories
2026-06-20 06:33:15
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Vic 🦖 :
The Guy I’m dating is always busy with work/friends etc and he hates texting. But I’ve realized that he will eventually text back or just call me. He always plan dates and is consistent. I’ve learned to not rely on just texts and how often they happen. And I started trusting his words and actions. And it feels so freeing??
2026-06-20 06:50:38
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honeybkimchee :
My current reality
2026-06-20 06:48:03
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susana :
im going through this right now. cried for 2 hours last night waiting for a reply. then it came and i realized everything was fine. today, again, complete normalcy. maybe it’s truly all in my head
2026-07-10 15:25:51
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Teresa Serg :
You’re so right about this! Found this person and we are together for over two years right now.
2026-07-10 14:38:47
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bunnydog1776🇺🇸🇻🇦 :
The guy I’ve been talking to he’s in the navy (aka he can be busy a lot) but we have called every single day for almost three weeks
2026-07-09 19:49:35
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Oumnxx :
Mama that was actually horrendous don't wish this on me
2026-06-20 19:33:20
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Val :
yup happened to me took me a year to become a normal person but i did it!!!
2026-07-10 17:07:03
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♡ 𝓒𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓶𝓲𝓮𝓟𝓲𝓮𝓼 ۶ৎ :
As an anxious attachment girlie: the best thing that happened to me was meeting a medium distance busy man who still made time for me! I can reasonably expect one day every couple weeks to have his full attention for several hours doing something together but 90% of the time it’s a few minutes texting in the morning and again for about 30 minutes before bed. I still have moments when I struggle a lot with my anxiety, but the vast majority of the time I feel great and this is by far the healthiest I’ve been in a relationship and I’m only getting better with time.
2026-06-20 21:37:57
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Asa_Monroe :
I found a life of my own, so now I'm too busy.
2026-06-20 08:43:51
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Dorionp :
u da goat
2026-07-09 02:25:57
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VANESSA :
So what are the insecurities 😭
2026-07-10 15:50:16
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Nine ☀️ :
That’s actually true, i’m in right now and I think it’s helping me
2026-07-09 23:13:24
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e.Claire :
I did that. i was doing great until he didnt text me for 7 days and at that point I was like this is a f'ing game to him and went will anxious right back into it. ruined it totally. havent heard from him in a year
2026-06-20 13:05:57
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🥀 :
This is exactly what my therapist told me. Him texting me back so quickly is only feeding the anxious attachment. If you have someone that enables your anxieties you won’t heal.
2026-06-20 20:08:41
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mrscjj3 :
Actually the only thing that worked was dating a decent human being who’s actions reassured me so his words never had to. Turns out im perfectly securely attached after all
2026-06-23 02:04:35
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Stefania German :
Yes yes yes! I am talking to someone working at the emergency department, and starting seeing my thoughts spiking is EYE OPENING
2026-06-20 06:31:32
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caityb346324 :
I’ve realized that my anxious attachment issues stem from my dad and low self esteem so I’ve decided to go to therapy so I don’t keep running into anxious attachment issues every single time I’ve started dating
2026-06-20 12:04:41
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Liz :
I’ve realised I don’t need constant texting. I need reassurance. When I’m feeling safe, I don’t need to look at my phone all day, and I enjoy it like that. It’s not about the text.
2026-06-20 23:39:26
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Maw Tarot :
can't agree more 😩🫶 it's a rewriting narrative for our mind, giving us the chance to learn self soothing and to learn new experience: people can be busy and it's not the same as abandonment. people can be busy and still stay in our life
2026-06-20 09:03:40
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Pixie🤍🌙 :
Girl everything u say is so tea
2026-06-21 21:07:01
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chanka 🧚🏻♀️ :
Didn't work on me ma'am, end up breaking up with loml cuz my insecurities took over and made both of us suffocating
2026-06-22 13:42:50
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yoambular :
I’m trying I’m trying 😬
2026-06-20 07:07:26
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Mother :
I fell in love with a man who was chasing a PhD, does he love me?absolutely. does he take time to respond? absolutely, am I fine with it? Absolutely. besides.... have other things you want to achieve to.
2026-06-20 07:27:35
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Haylee McGregor :
Alternatively, you leave the avoidant
2026-06-21 00:14:58
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