@miranda_fl0wer: I look like shit 😂 I was eating pizza and playing Sekiro so maybe that’s why I sound uncharacteristically frustrated 😩 #story #dating #response #advice #fyp
I find it a strange but interesting trend on this platform where people feel the need to treat every situation presented to them as a mystery to be solved.
2026-06-20 10:59:27
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babycrochetbygeorgia :
We are conditioned to fall in love with potential. DO NOT DO IT.
2026-06-20 10:28:07
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Janie1215066 :
‘No’ is a whole sentence.
2026-06-20 21:42:48
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Kaitlincolourist :
What’s so funny is that if you did give him a chance and got into a relationship and down the line had any issues whatsoever with him then people would say “Choose Better” or “You should have known” …..🫠
2026-06-20 14:25:23
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emilysr.____ :
You don’t have to date them! Most of the video I’m impressed, but calling jobless people bums and losers is a bit far. Some people (not that guy but some people) genuinely can’t find employment right now and it doesn’t mean they’re bums and losers. As a business owner that often hires people struggling to find work, a lot of them are incredible workers, needing to be given a chance
2026-06-20 09:45:04
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donna ‼️ :
I don't date specifically because I have no job so I know as of right now I have nothing to offer other than vibes 😭 I don't get how some people feel like they're entitled to a romantic relationship
2026-06-20 10:19:47
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Vics1969 :
People get mad when I say I couldn't date anyone with anxiety or depression. Every serious relationship I've had, the person had anxiety and depression and I just couldn't do it again.
2026-06-20 09:24:57
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Victoria Vacher :
Have people forgotten the words to the song No Scrubs? Like what
2026-06-20 08:31:24
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CarrieSmith🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🇵🇸 :
Didn’t see the first video. But I’m on your side, because we don’t actually have to date anyone we don’t want to. I don’t care about the reasons. If you don’t want to date someone, that’s your choice and you have my full support!
2026-06-20 12:43:27
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Lemur :
You’re not in the wrong for having standards, but your standards should also have nuance. What I do think was wrong was the order in which you did things. It would be better to ask why and then make your decision based on the reasoning, rather than rejecting someone immediately and then asking why. Obviously not defending the guy either, bc he decided not to give a reason, but it could’ve been handled better by both sides imo.
2026-06-20 07:36:36
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Bojack90s :
you said he was audio visual that's not speculation that's how that role works, you do sound for a band or a theatre show or a tv show or a comedy night or a corporate event, they take whatever pops up, these jobs pay thousands each they have great savings or they wouldn't do it. if his last job was a 9-5 and he seemed like he was fired no one would be coming at you you just didn't understand his job/industry there isn't permanent contracts in that industry.
2026-06-20 12:21:18
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Ruby 🇨🇦 :
You are allowed to say no for any reason. Keep being unburdened Queen ✨
2026-06-20 12:33:10
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Morel-la 🇨🇦 :
As a 50y/o woman with a good amount of relationship experience I 100% support this message.
2026-06-20 14:42:50
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Laura Racky :
Well put. Don’t ever lower your standards. They are yours and yours alone to choose. Your life. Others can choose how they like too. 💕💕💕
2026-06-20 08:42:20
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Ripley Tornya :
I agree with you girl
2026-06-20 07:36:19
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isoliveoncoffee :
yeah I agree, if he is deflecting the questions then that is a red flag. Just be honest and say "yeah I'm out of work at the moment, lost my job a while back and I'm struggling to get a job" that's it 🤷
2026-06-20 18:26:11
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piggy0662123 :
As a dad of girls, I say keep your standards and keep valuing yourself👍
2026-06-20 13:41:45
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MapleSugar🇨🇦 :
First, I understand why you feel you need to explain but honestly sister you don’t! you rock!!
2026-06-20 16:22:32
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susan 🇦🇺 :
You are a Queen. I’m impressed. This brings me hope for future generations of self determinant women and the society you will develop moving forward. 🥰👑💐👏
2026-06-20 07:30:12
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hemizeni 🌱ヘミゼニ :
you don't need to justify we know 🙏
2026-06-20 08:40:18
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felicity.green :
Unemployed is a hard line for me too. It was when I was last single at 19 and will always be one. So fair.
2026-06-20 09:24:49
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Gcg :
Love your account. As I commented in your video, good on you for having standards!
2026-06-20 09:02:56
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pussielequeur :
What if it's a case of right person, wrong time? Jesus, people?!? Learn to discern! Life goes on.
2026-06-20 17:36:01
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Laura :
Perfect, no notes
2026-06-20 23:45:27
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MissFussyDM :
Queen 👑 response
2026-06-20 14:21:43
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