@her_mind_speaks: Replying to @N people can get stuck in the emotion of longing for such a long time which keeps them attached to the wrong people #fyp #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment
Your page is invaluable to me Jen, thank you. 🙏🏾 please make your videos downloadable
2026-06-20 15:25:19
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Em :
wow that really changed a lot of thoughts about patterns I thought I had too, ❤️❤️❤️thank you so much, your videos are all so kind and patient and clear and feels really safe to explore these ideas in the way you talk about them and the understanding you show 🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-20 11:42:41
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mioonic :
why if it's all right and as you said but not the part of them turning stable? I know that if they actually turned stable and started being consistent then I'd want to be in a relationship with them
2026-06-20 12:02:04
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christa19742 :
Well this is a real eye opener 💕
2026-07-05 15:19:36
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Babygirl :
Omg that’s what happened to me. He was already messing up plans two weeks in and I wanted it to be over he said he would work on it and he kept saying this several more times and I noticed he was just avoidant. Every time I felt closer he’d pull back.
2026-06-21 21:33:34
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N :
Thank you so much for the reply. When you said longing it really hit close to home. If I go back to my diaries I can see the word yearning alot. I long to be finally chosen with certainty. The problem is that I am not in a relationship with any of them. These people are my friends or colleagues. Not a romantic relationship. :(
2026-06-20 13:27:03
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Mystic :
never made so much sense 💯
2026-06-21 12:14:21
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aphopson :
I’ve never felt so spoken to. Thank you
2026-07-12 08:25:29
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Kazzy :
It put me in a panic because he was normal , and my nervous system couldn’t handle it ❤️
2026-07-14 08:08:26
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Higher Jewels :
Knowledge is Powerful. Thank u 4 explaining this so well. This makes total sense. We are attracted to what we are familiar with..unfortunately yes..I was attracted to my trauma. No more breadcrumbs. I want the whole bakery. I learnt to give to myself what I was seeking from others. Self love. Self respect. No more proving, seeking, working for it xx.👑🥰
2026-06-20 22:06:13
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