@ithinkimparanoids: Don’t make anyone feel bad about their issue, the amount of comments I see demonizing and making avoidant attachment look bad is just so weird and rude asf, People do not consciously "choose" this attachment style it is typically a defense mechanism formed in childhood due to inconsistent caregiving, emotional neglect, or early trauma, and it isn’t our fault really for having it, do NOT invalidate others for having it. It sucks being this way. #avoidantattachment

🃏 :

i get overwhelmed so easily

tyler ( ren’s fav ♡ ) :

I used to love talking to people now I fucking hate everyone

^~UnønchiXD~^ (8K+) :

I’m so desperate to chat or hangout to someone, ANYONE, but the moment something happens or someone wants to chat, then I become avoidant

vall.z¡sTo4k (kaseohh) :

"I was doing chores" when in reality, i was just doom scrolling and ignoring her messages.

༒︎ :

How to fix it? i end up alone from ts

Crazzyy_Juliee :

I genuinely cant repost this, but this is so relatable

🎹—𝓚 𝘢𝘥𝘦 ⋆☕︎˚˖ ࣪ :

I literally ignore people for hours and keep them waiting and I feel so guilty when they ask what I was doing when I was gone

Seo :

How do i fix this genuinely

hesperia ✦🕷️ :

“im bored lets heal before we have any connections with any human beings!!!” idk how many times i have to tell ppl this. u can only heal if you let yourself be vulnerable with other people. if you don’t do that, that not only doesnt put your healing into practice, but it defeats the whole fucking point 😭😭 stop telling avoidants to self isolate bc they arent “healthy enough”.

Sprout :

Is there like a “cure” to this? Idk why I ignore people, like I see their message notification and I’m like “respond!” But I can’t some reason, it’s like I’m having a public irl conversation and I just freeze because idk what to say back, so I respond later after I think of a perfect response 😭 I’m like please talk to me but then I’m like please don’t talk to me at the same time, it’s annoying and idk how to get over it, it’s not on purpose

𝙽𝚒𝚔𝚔𝚢 ˚.🍡🎀༘⋆ :

Sometimes I lowkey just don’t wanna talk to people and I feel bad about it💔

cathlyn💥 :

i hate being like this. I'll see someone's message and ignore them for hours or even days. sometimes I've went a week. . how do i fix this, genuinely

ayeshartedmypants :

fr, opening messages from anyone feels like a chore

Layz Chipz 0-0 :

like sorry but i just want/like to be alone a lot of times please dont leave me tho ill come back when im ready 😔

PavodizZ :

me sorprende como siempre estan pegados al cel, como si no tuvieran vida mas alla

ᨳ ֹ 🍰 ૮꒰◞ ◟ ꒱ა ִ ℭ𝔦𝔇 ֗  ᘞ :

Ты занят, но не занят одновременно. Ты можешь но не можешь ответить. Ты есть, но по факту тебя нет

BERUUU :

I hate talking to people who only come to me for help and never help me

Leviathan 🪐 :

I am avoidant until I’m insanely fixated on a person and suddenly they’re the only person in the world and I want to talk to them constantly. I hate it here

Мак :

Cutiefulness :

Anxious ppl dont deserve love #unpopularopinion

no_name :

or "I gtg" even if you're not BUSY.

L𝖾m (λ) :

I know this is about avoidant attachment but I personally tend to do this because of how much I'm dissociating. I often only do the task at hand which causes me to ignore literally everything else around me until its in my face again