They have to love you in your love language and not theirs.
2026-06-21 03:51:34
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Amanay🪐 :
i love your voice… its soothing… cause i feel everything you’re saying
2026-06-21 12:40:56
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KAM’S World ♓️🩷 :
I feel this platonically with most of my friends and family
2026-06-20 22:06:41
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Наталья :
Therapist here: you didn’t choose the patterns you keep repeating, it is not your fault. They were pushed onto your younger version in order to feel safe or to stay loved. Highly recommend reading Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson. These things do not define you, you have the ability to choose and change.
2026-06-21 02:36:46
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Jamsetting :
I love how you explained this. This applies to friendships/platonic relationships as well
2026-06-21 07:37:23
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Its.lea:) :
It’s actually heartbreaking and exhausting
2026-06-20 16:33:37
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𝓚𝓪𝔂𝓸𝓷🎀 :
You explained this perfectly. You have to love people in their love language.
2026-06-21 11:09:01
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MOTSEMME :
people misunderstand a relationship is not about loving a person through your love languages. it is to love a person through their love languages
2026-06-21 05:15:48
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your_fav :
me with God, I know he loves me but I rarely feel it
2026-06-21 02:43:36
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Phumalangasikothe :
“Just because you love me doesn’t mean I feel loved by you”
2026-06-21 10:05:18
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Thobeka Mbaxa🇿🇦 :
Currently in this situation. I was even asking myself what does it even mean to be loved and couldn’t answer that, well my answer did not satisfy me.
2026-06-21 04:07:22
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cena :
i used to feel so ungrateful for feeling this way but i just can’t shake it or pretending
2026-06-20 16:38:13
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Hawah :
I am in this situation right now and his a good man but I don't feel loved and I am starting to feel drained 🥺
2026-06-21 05:23:08
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Nas :
The timing of this is scary😭
2026-06-20 16:44:05
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noku :
exactly
2026-06-21 11:23:43
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eniola. :
this is exactly how i feel🥹
2026-06-21 12:29:18
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🐈⬛mommallama🦉 :
Unfortunately, I think this just comes down to compatibility. And you can love someone and ultimately just not be compatible in how you love someone. It does suck, but there is also someone out there who will love you and show you in a way that makes you feel it.
2026-06-20 21:37:25
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Joy💻 :
I just know they don’t!! Love is an action word… it’s a verb… it’s a doing word.. so if I can’t feel it naa naa
2026-06-21 06:15:28
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Fi 💕 :
You must love your partner in the way they feel love not the way you do. It’s so important to learn eachothers love language
2026-06-20 23:57:38
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Kiki :
You might be my brain
2026-06-21 00:59:53
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ma.ya❤️ :
Then I fall out of love and he’s deep in love cause he thinks he’s doing it right and I then feel bad😔it really is exhausting.
2026-06-20 21:36:02
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Daisy :
I fear people really overlook the importance of learning how the person they love receives love and wants to be loved. I think the need for the "Google translate" middle person wouldn't be there if we sat down and asked each other "what makes you feel loved and how do you receive it?" that way both parties can be content and properly feel each others love. It would reduce so much of the frustration and underlying resentment that builds up in relationships.
2026-06-20 20:39:42
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tinatina8058 :
It means they don’t love me.If you truly love me you will find ways to show me no matter what
2026-06-21 00:28:28
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