@ogborderline: I feel like I got 15 years of my life and energy back After splitting with my husband . #startingover #divorcetok #bpdtiktok #avoidantattachmentstyle #divorced
I am 72. As matter fact, today is my birthday. I’m 73. I have been single for 20 years and sometimes I get a little lonely and think I should find somebody to spend my remaining years with. Then, I think of myself in the kitchen making dinner, and him sitting in the living room with the remote in his hand, and I snap right out of it. 😂
2026-06-21 14:47:26
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Arbygirl :
I won the lottery. I got divorced, got a place with my best friend of 35 years who’s also divorced. She loves to cook!!
2026-06-21 21:41:21
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msmrsro :
Enjoy your peace. 🤗
2026-06-23 02:11:30
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Amanda :
I have a husband Like this and also a teen boy and also my 83 yo dad. I’m so tired
2026-06-23 01:58:17
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DeiRene3 :
Isnt it wonderful only having to take care of yourself?
2026-06-20 19:03:55
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🇺🇸 Jennaaayyy...❌ :
Ì think many of us totally understand 🥰💯
2026-06-20 17:14:59
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Marie-Claire I 50+Bestie :
I have not turned on my stove in almost 7 months 💅🏾 Single and happppppy.
2026-06-20 18:41:23
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WandaWonderWhy🫠 :
I got so tired of being my husband's mother. He died, left me a shit load of life insurance money. Life is finally good and I feel like I'm finally getting paid for 26 years of unpaid labor.
2026-06-20 21:36:25
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Rena Toomey :
I realized that I had somehow become responsible for every morsel. So I stopped cooking. He started making meals for himself that were pre-made. He also did not make food for both of us.
2026-06-21 12:03:05
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Daisydew :
It’s so liberating to no longer be responsible for anyone else’s food!
2026-06-20 19:43:53
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c._.kayy :
i made this really delicious taco salad earlier, and now that i think about it, maybe what made it so delicious was that it was just for me and i didn’t have to make any for anyone else.
2026-06-21 02:16:32
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Lorena Rodriguez :
I remember wanting to be married so badly, when it finally happened I felt like I was scammed. Happily divorced.
2026-06-21 20:40:26
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rach 🕷️ :
I hate when I have to think of dinner but it has to appeal to everyone 💀 I could eat cheese and crackers and be happy
2026-06-21 22:57:53
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dookie lobster :
It’s like I tell my husband. When I’m hungry, I eat. When he’s hungry he waits to see what I’m going to do.
2026-06-22 22:54:08
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User0009909877 :
I’m so jealous
2026-06-23 02:15:35
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Helen Anderkin :
I absolutely agree with you. I told Carr of a man for years. It was mental and physically exhausting every day. He passed sway 11 years ago now and you are correct. ✅
2026-06-20 21:03:07
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Hunneebee43 :
say that
2026-06-23 01:15:01
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B-Texas :
Happy for you. Divorced after 30 years and now love coming home.
2026-06-23 01:22:36
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LaSonia Seay :
I'm quietly quitting...
2026-06-20 21:12:50
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Rich Mz :
I ate an avocado with sea salt and pumpkin seeds for dinner my husband called me from the basement asking if I was cooking him dinner. I said NO and went about my day
2026-06-22 07:40:42
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LadyJay :
I used to have so much anxiety when my ex-husband came home from work because I was so tired and drained and just stressed about if he was going to like the food that I cooked. I am now single, happy and I’m never getting married again
2026-06-21 05:23:09
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Teachkem :
Yrs ago I was sick with walking pneumonia & missed work for a week. I remember him coming in to tell me that there wasn’t any clean silverware. He. Couldn’t. Even wash. The. Dishes.
2026-06-21 15:23:21
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SarahAileenStudio :
Girl dinner is where it’s at 🙌🏻🥰💗
2026-06-20 22:06:40
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Missa928 :
I will never understand getting married again after doing it once. Once is MORE than enough.
2026-06-21 14:22:55
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TikTokBeachtime :
I have seen several post about “decentering”. I am now working in this!
2026-06-20 17:56:19
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