xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Saturday 20 June 2026 16:45:46 GMT
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Lyss :
I don’t even think I was anxiously attached… I think he was so avoidant and confusing, that he was having me shift from secure, to anxious to just try to reach him. No thank you- I gave up and for some reason he’s mad I’m no longer engaging lol I’m tired.
2026-06-20 22:43:08
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JJEnglish1214 :
what do i do when during our break she hooked up with someone? she said it made her realize how much she missed me and she regrets it. she’s had so much going on lately and she said she’s been trying to rush things. i want to forgive her so badly because i myself haven’t treated her right hence our breakup. it just feels so sickening that a few days before i was at her house because of health issues comforting her and being intimate with eachother. i’m just glad she told me and was honest i guess. i want to give her a second chance, but not until i see a change
2026-06-20 16:54:04
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Braydo :
What about when one person goes from anxiously attached to avoidant/unattached?
2026-06-22 03:49:32
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Bfarmyard🇨🇦 :
Mismatched, so how do you navigate this? Growing in a relationship is a goal, to deepen and continue to context over time. everyone changes and seeing the changes and going with them is healthy. If fixed isn’t recognizing this aspect in life it’s not ok. Just because they’re content doesn’t make it right for the growth mindset to have to settle for emotional neglect. So how do you navigate this.
2026-06-21 16:52:15
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Hanna :
What if one partner co anger from a growth to a fixed mindset?
2026-06-25 01:13:18
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colby.bebop :
so if two people in this dynamic are trying to make it work, what needs to happen? this is very much me, wanting both of us to grow and getting burned out. I got a breaking point and now my partner wants to try, is it reasonable to ask them to move towards a growth mindset?
2026-06-21 15:57:38
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user146454545 :
So what do I do to fix this? It sounds exactly like my marriage.
2026-06-21 00:44:40
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-21 02:53:29
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🪷Eastcoastmomma81🪷 :
He isn’t asking for advise from anyone who has ever been in a long term relationship, it’s easier for him to point blame at me for everything then take accountability for his actions that have caused the marriage breakdown and even had the nerve to say that his female best friend who I never met in our 20 years relationship is a better person then me
2026-06-21 02:05:16
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