@subliminalsamira: I know a lot of you are blocked right now, in no contact, or dealing with someone who’s stubborn as hell. The thing is, no contact doesn’t usually affect an avoidant overnight. It tends to happen in stages. 🌸 Week 1 Distraction. They’re keeping themselves busy and throwing themselves into other things. Not because they’ve forgotten you, but because they’re trying not to think about it. 🌸 Week 2 The silence starts feeling strange. They’re used to seeing your name pop up, hearing from you, or knowing what you’re doing. Now there’s just… nothing. 🌸 Weeks 3-4 They start checking the mental door. Wondering if you’ll reach out. Wondering if you’ve moved on. Wondering if this is really over. 🌸 1-2 Months This is where no contact starts getting to a lot of avoidants. Especially if you’ve stayed silent. They’re realizing you might actually be okay without them. 🌸 2-3 Months For many avoidants, this is when they start questioning their decision. The emotional high of the breakup is gone and reality starts setting in. 🌸 Want to speed things up? The bowcat method is one of the biggest manifestation hacks when it comes to no-contact situations because it helps keep your focus on the outcome instead of the waiting. If you don’t know how to do it yet, it’s linked at the top of my profile. ✨ The results you guys have been getting lately have been absolutely insane. A lot of you have been seeing movement in just a couple of days, which is actually WILD. 👀 Save this for later. 🤍 #avoidantattachment #nocontact #specificperson

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