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Paloma Impopular :

I am a reliable narrator of my own history. Ask me anything.

ΨMetricz :

I love this message but it's also ironically funny because if I asked about a past relationship on a date and got this answer I would be buying a ring because of the incredibly honesty that is so rare to find 😂💍 that question and your answer is one of my litmus tests 😂

Strange Days Journal :

I own my shit

Eleusinia Podcast :

The advice is to pay attention (with discernment is in the subtext).

sir.g :

I agree with many of your takes but not this one. I've become pretty good at figuring out who is lying, or even who is lying to themselves. And that only happened by listening to people time after time and comparing that to what I think about them. I agree that's important not to obsess, but at the same time, there's a lot to be learned just by listening to people and not necessarily accepting everything they say at face value

harrinus :

I do fully remember how bad person I have been... but I think its probably mostly because I became exactly the same as the people I hated the most and if I'm fully honest to myself what I like to be I became much worse. but now days I'm fully aware of my shadow and my shadow scares me more than anything in this world..

Dom :

People are really silly 😂 the best thing you can hope for is 2 people who want to try. Not only try but even fix things when they’re completely messed up. Theres nothing you’ll learn by dwelling on the past. You heal and you proceed to live life for the future. Not based on the past.

Dr Sher Afgan :

good take but how do you discern false information, what if they've shared the truth and yes with time you see what's true and what's false but I'll try saying I'm running out of time 😂 see if it works

johan Van Wambeke :

This is it. The temperament, elequence and the look. Flood the world with this.

captainwheelbarrow :

Also u could interview their exes and friends to get some more perspectives. If everyone they know says the same thing that tells u something

Dirk Gently :

everyone is the hero of their own story

Michelle Quick :

While I agree with your main point about people being unreliable narrators, I think it’s still a useful exercise. If they don’t have many long term friends, if they always blame the other person for things going wrong, if they have only bad things to say about their exes, these are some red flags.

Self Mastering Alchemist :

I mean I have had many convos like that i dont have a problem pointing out where I dropped in any relationship...hell present relationships/friendships often show me where I dropped the ball in past relationships its a fekken beautiful thing though it can be an uncomfortable mirror to look into🦋🦋🦋 but I do love what you have to say in this!!

RiccardoSpagnuolo :

I am that honest

feRn :

darlingtakeyourtime :

This is tiktok gold 🪎

Michael Shane :

you will agree that I am who I want you to think I am!

richard.grimm_adventure :

Thank you

Rodrigo Berlanga :

no cap

I-er samedi :

Met someone who talked down on themselves before, beside I think it is about reading patterns, the inconsistency in their actions and their stories is what matters, beside if you head over heels before you can even judge the other person then you need to check yourself out first, learn to regulate emotions and logic properly, I think

TheUncertaintyStudent :

confusing romance with love . perhaps the term relationship is outdated , special friend might be better

aiden❤️ :

This is such a mature take tbh

jsometimes :

Yes of course, but what happened to you?