@kimberly.lapaglia: Dating advice usually focuses on how to impress someone on a first date. I think that’s backwards. The goal of a first date isn’t to impress someone. It’s to discover whether the two of you actually enjoy being yourselves together. That’s why I think one of the worst places for a first date is a fancy restaurant. Now you’re dressed up, spending money, sitting across from each other in a high-pressure environment trying to make a good impression. Most people leave knowing whether the performance went well. They don’t know whether they genuinely liked the person. A great first date creates space for conversation, curiosity, and a little bit of real life. Because dating isn’t about convincing someone to choose you. It’s about finding out whether you’re a fit when neither of you is pretending to be someone else. #datingtips #datingadvice #firstdate #firstdates
Showing each other how much you like each other usually goes like this: me- I like her a lot. Her- you’re still here?
2026-06-21 16:09:12
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Adam :
I find being nonchalant works best on a 1st date.
2026-06-21 02:33:02
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Joffrey Kimbotay :
so where should we go on a first date?
2026-06-21 06:30:16
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officialmichaeljames :
Worst first date is going to a movie theater. Second is fancy dinner.
2026-06-21 02:17:34
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Wyblrrr :
I really don’t think there’s a such thing as a bad first date spot only incompatible people . do what feels right . people saying dinners feel like job interview and yet going to coffee doesn’t?? people literally do interviews and business meetings over coffee all the time lol . people are what make first dates work not places or things.
2026-06-21 14:06:49
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Shane :
First dates are always activities based, I prefer something with some possibility of competition. You really get a feel for the person once you see just how competitive they are or not on a first date. This is assuming you had conversation before you asked them out. Otherwise simple walk or coffee to have conversations. She says no, you just saved yourself from someone who isn’t dating with the idea of making connections and an open mind heart.
2026-06-20 21:56:49
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Cameron Clarke :
If your into nature, like I am, last thing I want to do on a first date is sit across someone for an hour in a restaurant , its starts to feel like a job interview.I really like walks outdoors, sometimes would even bring the 🐶. So that worked for me. Second date sure.
2026-06-20 20:44:51
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__mstodd :
I’d like to take a date to a fun center with go karts and games but thinking it would come across juvenile. 🤷 q
2026-06-21 03:05:17
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Heddymusic :
I asked her to Aldi's. I needed to shop for soup ingredients, and she was a huge fan of the "Aisle of Shame." I had never been there. That was our first date. Short and sweet.
2026-06-21 21:27:13
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Dr Wash❌ :
Went on a date to flea market recently
2026-06-21 06:05:12
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epaul252 :
Loving your content mam !
2026-06-22 12:34:57
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Chauncey :
Dinner is the #1 Worst first date.
2026-06-21 01:02:36
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DWYER MCKEITH :
A first impression is not nearly as important as a second and third impression. Let it sink in...
2026-06-21 03:28:27
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Larry :
Been on many first and subsequent dates and some relationships…but the mask comes off after 3 to 6 months and you see the real person. And then you have to evaluate whether this person is for you or not. 👍
2026-06-21 09:54:03
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jumpjumpjohnny :
It’s awkward to make eye contact on a first date.😂
2026-06-21 02:11:23
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@Easy_Writer0 :
You’re dating each other’s representative
2026-06-21 16:18:07
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Bama golf :
I like a simple coffee date, and maybe a walk in the park, or Greenway if there’s a connection. Ice cream can also be fun.
2026-06-23 02:58:07
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Sean Garvey :
I agree. Coffee date. Let’s talk. See if we even like each other
2026-06-21 04:48:50
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Eleven :
Coffee only ☕
2026-06-21 08:42:42
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Red Hills Rancher :
bring yourself and be real!
2026-06-21 07:26:38
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gregarious :
Walks are great. Simple activities can be fun (if both people feel comfy with the activity). Sharing a museum or gallery walk. Whatever the setting, I want space for conversation and laughter. Keep things light, fun, and safe.
2026-06-20 21:51:08
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Louie :
We are going sailing.
2026-06-21 03:51:32
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Johnny1984 :
If they won’t jump on the back of my Harley and go for a ride then she won’t like me anyway 😂. Go cruising, stop and see a few things, and just hang out like to two teenagers again lol. I’m not going to some fancy restaurant and enduring a job interview. Not happening
2026-06-21 01:16:04
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sparklinggem528 :
Agree 👍
2026-06-21 23:24:35
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